To start with I am married. We are poly and have been for 8 years now. We date completely separately and you'll only ever meet and interact with her if you want to. And never in a romantic fashion. I know everyone has their dates a poly person horror story. We aren't that. So give it a shot if you've been burned before. You might be surprised.

I don't like to talk kinks and sext right off the bat. I want to get to know you as you. But I'll say the list is extensive and there will be something for the both of us to agree on in there somewhere. I wouldn't be worried about that.

A little about me. I'm a Senior Manager at a tech company. I WFH, with lots of free time, weekdays and weekends. You won't feel like you're having to work to get my time and attention. You can have basically as much as you want. I have no children. One cat. I'm super excited for the weather to be warming up and getting back outside and in the water more. This is my favorite time of year.

My personal interests are nerdy. I like anything history related. I love to watch, read, listen to non fiction. I love the escapism of a good story. I don't play a lot of video games. I lost that joy somewhere in adulthood. I love to work with my hands. Fixing broken things is always a joy.

Physically I'm very masculine, 6'00'', HWP. Think country boy with a city job.

Politically I am very very liberal. Everyone assumes the opposite upon first seeing me. So that's why I include that here.

I have no problem sharing SFW pictures immediately. Just ask.

I do like to move the conversation off or reddit relatively quickly. Just tell me what app is your preference. I also like to have an in person date fairly soon. So if you're the type to talk for weeks at a time first, or you're not local right now, it's probably not a great match.

As for what I'm looking for in you? I don't have any preferences! I mean I do. We all do. But I've found that my most rewarding relationships in the past I would have otherwise dismissed for age, or looks, or experience level, or some other reason initially. But I gave them a shot and it turned out to be the right thing to do. So all are welcome here!

I look forward to hearing from you soon!