Life is short - too short for mediocre sex. Many of us have bucket lists, right? Well, if a bucket list is all the things we want to do before we leave the earth, then I'm a proponent of the fuckit list - it's bedroom-themed sibling.

What is it you've always wanted to try, but haven't had an adventurous enough partner? What have you wanted to experience but couldn't work up the courage to say it? What are you searching for on pornhub at night that piques your interest in a taboo way?

I'm a service top and soft-dom leaning; I absolutely love to please. I get a sense of pride and feeling of power when I'm able to bring my partner to the precipice of climax, or in rendering them speechless in a way that only repeated waves of orgasms can. I love knowing I can relax someone with a massage and help them feel seen, feel desired, and take care of them as opposed to the last guy who may have just rolled over as soon as he came. No - to be direct, getting you off gets me off.

That being said - I'm looking for someone who wants to explore. Someone who wants to be taken care of, to be pleased in whatever way you desire. Someone who wants to feel alive in the way that feeling your heartbeat in your clit as a tongue flits across it can do. Something casual yet consistent and with great communication; let's dive into this together. Ultimately, I want to know your body the way a concert pianist knows a Steinway: knowing exactly where to caress or pressure to elicit something beautiful.

About me: 38, single, educated, clean, and sterile (vasectomy). I'm 5'8", brown hair, pale blue eyes, and a dad bod I'm working on. I'm a great communicator, have an acerbic wit, and have a low tolerance for bullshit. Ideally, I want to find someone like me - someone who wants to explore in an open-minded, well-communicated, low-stakes way. If you're recently out of a dead bedroom, have a vivid imagination, or simply love the idea of occasionally losing track of the world and it's troubles for a few hours, well...I'm your huckleberry.

If this message speaks to you, reach out - but please be local or have plans to be local. Online is a great place to start and get to know one another, but something physical is the goal.

I can't wait to hear from you.