If we live 50 years together, the way we met counts as a mere 0,0002% of the rest of our lives, don’t let the excuse of a « shady subreddit » keep us from each other

I’ve been struggling to find the right person for a while now. My best friend suggested I should try dating within the BDSM community since I am the biggest brat who likes to be put back into her place. (Yes, I love being cheeky in a respectful way)

I focus on self-improvement and recently listened to a podcast from « The diary of a CEO » that emphasized prioritizing three key traits in dating prospects. For me, these are:

• Sexual compatibility: As a highly sexual person, I need to be attracted to my partner. It helps if you are well groomed  and are a little taller than me. 
• Ambition: Drive in life,  fitness and your line of work is important, as it motivates me and keeps the attraction alive.
• Emotional and intellectual intelligence: This allows for deep connection, safety, and ongoing learning together.

I don’t think these are unreasonable standards, especially since I offer the same.

About me : - Several degrees, love everything science, and speak many languages fluently. I also love reading, currently attempting to write my own book. Which is why I have too many kinks to count, and the only limits are Scat/ Blood/ permanent harm/ Anything illegal / watersports.

• I’m a 5”4, chocolate hair and fair skin, big lips and eyes, who loves going to the gym and taking care of her body.

• While I’m a private person and don’t often share this side of myself, I’ve been told that my independent nature often leads me to inspire the dominant role. Even if people closest to me say that I embody feminine energy. That’s why it’s important for me to find someone who makes me feel safe enough to let go and trust them to take the lead.

Do you think you have what it takes to make me weak in the knees ? Please write me a message explaining why we seem to be a good match and try getting my attention.

I am looking for something real, THE real deal, the geographical area isn’t important as long as we are nearly within the same time frame and we can see each other often, that’s what makes a real couple. ;)