Hello there internet stranger!

Are you looking for a relationship with an experienced dominant who enjoys a range of kinks with an emphasis on impact play? Look no further! I've been doing kinky stuff for over half my life now. I know what I like and what I don't like (although there are still a few bucket list kinks to try!)

Yes, fine, but who am I? I'm a guy who lives with a pair of cats in an apartment near downtown. I manage the technical elements of a small live theatre and take similar gigs on the side. Once or twice a year I'll take an acting gig. Sometimes I do a bit of door dashing if I'm bored or need a little extra spending money. For fun/relaxation, I like to play music, take a nice walk or bike ride, play some DnD, or just chill with a movie or video game. I'm 420 friendly and a social drinker. I like to go to a nice restaurant once in a while for some sushi, Indian, Thai, or Jamaican food. I'm an introvert who enjoys spending time in a small group of close friends much more than a large party where I don't know many people. My friends would probably say that I'm a thoughtful, kind, and creative person who probably isn't the life of the party but will definitely be there if they need someone to talk to or help with something.

As for the spicy stuff? Well! I should probably begin with my fondness for impact play. It's my favorite. I've been told that I have an evil grin that appears when I'm really feeling myself in an impact scene. I'm not really into impact play as a form of punishment. I do it because I like it, and hopefully you'll participate because you enjoy yourself a bit of pain too! I also enjoy bondage. I do some rope work and also like the chains and cuffs for some less time consuming bondage. I would say I'm an intermediate level rigger. I have a lot of experience with floor work and have done a supervised suspension in the past. Another mainstay kink of mine is orgasm control and forced orgasms. I love watching someone writhe and shake as they have orgasm after orgasm. I also enjoy DDlg, degradation, exhibitionism, and sharing my partner although I could feel fulfilled in a relationship that didn't include those elements, I don't I could say the same about impact play and bondage. I've been described as a pleasure dom, my focus is on making the experience both intense and enjoyable for my partner. I very much enjoy making my partner's fantasies a reality. This is by no means an exclusive list, but more of a preview. I have to draw the line at things that might draw blood/break skin, leave permanent marks or damage, put us at risk of ending up in a hospital or jailcell, or involve children or animals.

As for the type of relationship I'm looking for, I'm open to either monogamy or ENM but not really interested in a poly dynamic. I'm open to marriage to the right gal, but not into kids. I don't have any and I'm not looking to start now. I want to be your daddy, not some kid's dad. My ideal, eventual situation would be have both of us working, cohabitating, and enjoying some nice vacations with the extra income our lifestyle would allow. In terms of kink experience, I'm open to playing with partners of all levels and am happy to teach or train.

If you've made it this far and are interested, why not send me a message?