hi! I haven’t posted here in ages, but after taking a hiatus from the BDSM world, I’m really hoping this time I might find a dom who’s the right fit! Sorry in advance for the lengthy af post.

What am I looking for in a Dom?

My only strict preferences are that you’re between 20-30 yrs old, and within an hour or two of central time. The closer you are to Minnesota, the better, but I’m also open to an online dynamic. I don't want someone who only wants a sexting buddy, I'd love to form an actual friendship/relationship, however I'm probably not looking for anything super serious relationship wise. I'd like a strict Dom with a soft side, who likes exerting control in both sexual and non sexual things. Intelligence is also really hot to me. Beyond this, you are who you are, and I’d love to hear who you are as a Dom, and more importantly who you are as a person, from you :)

What am I looking for in a dynamic?

First and foremost, I’d like control taken out of my hands. I love the idea of having an authoritative figure to discipline and guide me. I want to be told what to do and how to do it, and pushed past my instinctual responses. While I’m not necessarily looking for a dd/lg dynamic, I like the caregiver components of it, and I like being rewarded for good behavior and punished for disobedience.

Who am I as a submissive?

In my everyday life, I’m in control whether I like it or not. So being submissive allows me to let go of my stress, and put some trust in somebody else for once. I’m a little bratty, I won’t lie, but it’s more my personality than purposeful disrespect. The more I trust someone and their authority, the more I submit. I’m a bit of a masochist, however mostly in person rather than in an online dynamic. I’m a people pleaser and I like being a good girl (most of the time), but I also get a kick out of throwing a little fight and getting sassy. So fair warning has been given.

Me as a person

I’d like to think I’m a relatively normal human outside being kinky. I’m a full time student and work in the medical field part time, so thankfully I have an easier course load this semester lol. I love travel and hiking, I’m a big fan of national parks, and I’m in the process of planning a 2-3 month European backpacking trip for once I graduate. I read a lot, especially romances and historical stuff. I listen to music quite a bit, and love going to concerts when I can. I also have ADHD…so every week I have a new hyper focus.

Appearance wise, I’m 5’1, about 135 lbs (so a lil curvy), light brown hair, nose piercing, and blue eyes. I’m not the most athletic person, but I have to run a 5K in December for a class, so anybody up to the challenge of motivating me to train for that is a definite plus.

KINKS

yeah yeah I know here’s the good stuff

the short list of my kinks: bondage, D/s, impact play, anal, TPE, humiliation, forced orgasms, medical play, sensory play, squirting, and more ;)

soft limits: foot stuff, self inflicted pain, watersports, electrostimulation

hard limits: vomit, scat, blood/permanent marks, weight humiliation, blackmail, switching

I’d love to hear from anybody interested who made it through that novel of a post :) feel free to message me the following

• Your age
• General location
• Hobbies/interests
• What type of Dom you are/why you think we might be compatible
• Kinks
• Hard and soft limits
• absolutely anything else about yourself, or any immediate questions for me