This is the shortened writeup of my kinky self and desires! If/when you're ready for more detail, check out the pinned post on my profile.

About me

- Cis woman, average/healthy weight, under 5 feet, "busty petite"

- Childfree. Sterilized. No kids, never having kids.

- Keep busy with animal rescue, as well as occasional activism and immigration volunteer work. Love learning more about psychology, sociology, neuroscience, and finance. Read often, especially sci-fi. Always trying to get out more often for hikes and outside time; working on planning some short backpacking trips again!

The kink/what I'm looking for

- Power exchange is a must. What that looks like exactly, can be defined collaboratively. There are many flavors of D/s, 24/7, M/s, TPE (though I have opinions about that term!) and so on. I definitely seek need more than bedroom-only kink in my life.

- Looking for something with longish-term potential, not hookups. Things take time.

- Top 4 kinks: Impact play, orgasm control, objectification, bondage.

- More kink interests: 24/7, caning, forced orgasms, humiliation, praise, restraints, spanking, training.

- I'm not interested in online only. I'm not really a fan of anything requiring NSFW pics, video calls... I expect we'll be able to meet up occasionally to spend in person time together. However, daily communication is still pretty important to me, and probably necessary for this sort of dynamic.

- Most notable hard limits: Anything in or on my mouth/lips (that does include giving oral), breeding kink/roleplay, face slapping, choking, unprotected (barrier free) sex.

- Other hard limits, including but not limited to: Bathroom play, body writing, feet, needles or cutting, permanent marks, almost everything illegal.

You, ideally... (must)

- At least 28 years old

- Some experience with kink already, and a good idea of your current capacity and what you're looking for.

- If you live in/near Atlanta: Dekalb county is typically a must. I'm medically unable to drive right now, and don't host (housemates), so taking regular Ubers to Alpharetta/Marietta/etc is not sustainable. Alternatively, you live outside of Dekalb but you're 100% okay with driving to my area and grabbing a hotel whenever we want to be somewhere private. Please acknowledge this in your initial message, if that's the case!

- If you're not in Atlanta: Please be relatively near an airport that has nonstop flights from ATL, as well as an ability to schedule dedicated IRL time with some regularity. Us both being able to travel, especially to new locations, would be amazing but is not necessary; I have the flexibility to carry the bulk of traveling if that works out better.

- Stay aware of and take reasonable precautions against infections (COVID, flu/viruses, STIs, and others)

- Are not a cop, immigration officer, or anyone who otherwise is in the habit of violating human rights. We will not get along.

Let's talk more!

- You should have a bio of some sort. A post on BDSMPersonals, your profile, Fetlife, or similar is all good. More is more; I'm happy to read it all! I have a lot written here so that you can assess compatibility early on, and I expect to be able to do the same.

- What I look for in a first message: Basic info about you (age, location, interests, etc); top kinks; experience with power exchange dynamics; a link to your Fetlife, if you have.

- Reddit chat strongly preferred over DMs.

- Sent a thoughtful message in the past, but didn't get a response? There's a good chance that I accidentally deleted the chat request. Happens way too often - Send another message and I'll see it again!