Hello everyone, I hope this message finds you at the right time and place.

A preview as this is a longer post: 24 year old bisexual Dom seeking a loyal and enthusiastic friend who needs to be put in their place on a regular basis.

Disclaimer - I’m not seeking any men at the moment, so please save each other’s time and only text them, if I liked what I saw. I’m not opposed to Non-Binary folk. I’ve love for everyone irrespective of their physical, but this is what I’m seeking rn. And I’ve given a lot of effort to this post, so I hope you’d the same. If not, I don’t have the time or energy.

All I can offer you is a simple thing, a space for you to be yourself. A lot of us have trouble with dating apps, the same old old word vomit about your music, pets name, generic pick up lines and talking to someone who has no sense of commitment or security, only to be brushed aside as soon as a new shiny thing appears.

Since your reading this post on BDSM sub Reddit, that brings about a new challenge in navigating the cesspool of modern dating; someone who is not afraid to take charge with a firm grip but a soft side, someone to not toss you off as soon as their need is filled and your left alone to pick yourself up, until it’s time time again to used.

If you’re tired about being nothing more than such an object, I’m here for you. My world is unpredictable and at times out of my control. Being a dominant is how I’ve learned to feel a sense of relief and de-stressing, the act of being someone’s guide as they get turn their mind off and feel joy by being of use to someone, someone who needs their trust, body and soul to feel a sense of calm. That’s why I want this lifestyle. If you read this far and it resonated with you, continue on ahead. If it didn’t, thank you for reading and good luck in the journey.

If you’ve read this far, I’ll explain little more of myself in terms of a person as well as in kink. I enjoy fitness and versed in the world, but always a lot to learn. Due to a recent health concern, I’ve only recently entered back into the sphere after a brief exit. I enjoy my fair share of film, shows and anime especially when it comes to horror, documentaries, DIYs, etc. I absolutely love cooking and think it’s a skill everyone needs to pick up. Of course, I love my video games and cars. They’re the best ways to experience thrill on a budget. I’m also a tattoo enthusiast and pretty tattooed myself, I love the culture behind them and also how it makes everyone a walking piece of art. I’m hoping to talk about these things but also about things you love as well.

Honesty and communication is extremely important to me and making our relationship not just a safe space but something unique to us. If you have a hard time communicating, I'll work with you. I like to go over each session we have to understand and improve our dynamic. I expect honesty and will push you until I get an answer l'm satisfied with. You'll ultimately give in, and get more confident in telling me how you really feel. My partner is a priority for me. That means I would like to chat semi-regularly, but I expect my sub to have life outside of this as to not burn each other out. l'm also a believer in (negotiated) structure and rules beyond the bedroom. Each dynamic is unique so it's not a one-size-fits-all. Obviously, nothing happens until we've established a clear connection, consent, and mutual respect. Much more to discuss together. This is where I insert a little check, if you read throughly through, send me a turtle emoji in the initial message.

My preference for my partner is something that I should preface as well. I enjoy someone who is active, warm, funny, can converse well outside of kink, enjoy learning, but also to share that knowledge. In terms of physical stature someone who is actively trying to stay in shape or working on it, short hair, piercings, tattoos. These are preferences, everything changes with the right person and connections. So, always feel free to message.

A good dom’s responsibility for their subs is allow them to be at their natural best. It isn’t about being in charge, it’s about taking care of the people in your charge. Hopefully people better under that while vetting and understanding their partners.

If this is an online dynamic, I expect my partner to be open to photos and videos. But we can build trust and communication first. We can always video call to eliminate outside factors. We can use it to catch up as well, outside of kink.

But I have discovered the lifestyle a while ago and am definitely experienced. My play style is mixed and can range from soft play to extreme play depending on what my sub needs. Some kinks that I enjoy and are staples are Dirty talk, anal play, impact play, degradation, body writing, timed play, praise, edging, orgasm denial, nipple play, mutual masturbation, oral fixation, cock & cum worship, restraint, orgasm control, toys, chastity, light impact, etc. some things that I don’t enjoy are age play, blood, scat, permanent scarring, diapers, etc.

Only good energy to everyone, D