Hopefully you chuckled at that title, just a little bit. If not, we probably won’t get along because I really like to joke. Probably too much, but, oh well.

So, I recently ended a vanilla relationship that began when I was 19. That means I’ve been out of the scene for a while. I’ve been through a lot since the last time I was part of a dynamic, and I feel like I’m ready for that again. To be honest, I feel like I’m craving that again. I missed it, but I gave it up for love. Silly girl things, I guess. I’m not super experienced, but I have had doms before (online and in person). Anyway.

About me: I’m finishing my master’s degree (hoping to graduate next summer). I like to read, do word searches, watch horror movies (tis the season!), bake, and argue with strangers on the internet about scientific facts vs. opinions. I’m a very staunch science supporter, as you’ll learn if we get to know each other well enough for me to share my research interests with you. My penchant for disagreeing oftentimes makes people label me a brat, amongst other b words, but hey, maybe you can turn those words into terms of endearment for me? Physically, I’m average height, brown hair and hazel eyes, overweight but working to change that (these papers cause a lot of stress eating 🥲).

About you: dominant, uncommitted/unmarried, monogamous (please don’t try to convince me that the way you practice your ENM is different, I won’t budge on this), preferably you’re older (considerably older is a plus, I love old men), happy with going slowish and being a mentor as I ease back into something I’ve missed for over half a decade. I like harder doms, from what I’ve explored on my own, but I’ve also had lovely interactions and experiences with soft doms. I think it’s really about the person, for me. Maybe that means my post doesn’t fit in here. 😆

I have a recent, updated BDSM test I’m happy to share with you, although I only did the submissive part because I’m not really a switch. Why make you read a lot of 0’s? I want to be clear that I am needing someone slow, someone understanding, and someone who is emotionally available as I’m not just looking for a taskmaster or a drill sergeant.

I hope that all makes sense. If not, I’m sorry. I’m new to this and feel like everything has changed since the last time I was with someone with the same interests. Good luck on your searches, regardless. 🥰