Hi there,

Trying my hand here, so here goes nothing. I'm a dad, single, and hoping to find an attached woman who wants to explore a kinky connection. I don't want to change your situation, but I would love to find someone who doesn't...just want the sex part? I know this is all kinda counter-intuitive, but I've been interested in exploring a dynamic like this, and would love to actualize it. Part of it is definitely the idea of hidden and burning desire for me personally, and I think the secrecy of it all is a huge turn on for me. That being said, I know that you'll always have your own life to go home to, and I don't expect for you to text me all the time, but I do like someone who is communicative, and is attentive as humanly possible. Little gestures go a very long way for me. That being said, none of this is a hard and fast requirement, and I'm open to seeing where things go.

Okay, still with me? I'm in the bay area, california and would prefer someone either in the bay area, but if the connection is worth it, I'm willing to be a bit flexible. I'm a college student, if that matters. I live with family, so hosting at my place is unlikely. I'm not the richest person, but I'm definitely more than happy to make hosting arrangements for us elsewhere. Before I go onto more, lemme give you an idea of me:

• Black and asian mixed, 5'7, curly hair, full lips, caramel skin, dad-bod (190ish), but do like to stay active, and love a good walk in nature

• Would prefer to meet for coffee or something for the 1st time we meet

• currently sober and would prefer to have sober sex the 1st time for us, but can definitely respect whatever pregaming you might want to indulge in

• With October coming up, definitely give me a good spooky story if you have one

Now onto the less PG stuff:

• I love kissing and would L O V E a good makeout, cuddling, hair pulling, spanking, being marked (on my body, just not my neck), staring at you if you'll let me, eating your pussy, creampies definitely (we'd have to have a convo about this if we wanted this)

• Please be on birth control, and have test results if we're going to have sex. I will have condoms.

• I'm not hard into BDSM per se, but definitely would like to explore restraints, blindfolds, massaging oil

There's definitely more, no need to make this a polemic lol. In terms of attraction, I would definitely at least like some sort of confirmation that you're a real woman (unfortunately, people on the internet lie). It doesn't have to be a nude, but I don't know...maybe send a coy picture, maybe your outfit. I'm sure you're a creative girl with a good brain, surprise me. If you don't feel comfortable sending pictures, I'll gladly take a voice memo/ maybe even a call if you're feeling bold. Just be my age or older, but my cutoff would probably be like 33 unless you think we'd make a good match. I tend to gravitate towards white and asian women (west asian and south east asian, esp), but not a hard requirement.

I definitely love curves, especially in all the right places, and I can't stress how much I love some stretchmarks and a bit of tummy. That shit will have me begging to adore you. Anyways...if you've made it down here thanks for reading. If we don't match well happy hunting! How much water have you drank today?