Ciao all you beautiful women. I'm C, a 29 year old straight man from the Bay Area looking for a girlfriend, who is also a submissive, to build a long lasting connection with. We will start with talking and getting to know each other online and then we will advance to meeting and spending time together in person. Ideally, you are from the Bay Area, but if this interests you and you're from the West Coast reach out. If this truly speaks to you and you're from the North American continent reach out still, it's less ideal but I can make it work.

Dealbreakers: I'm not looking for something that is forever online or for any kind of RP. My intention is real so please do not reach out to me if you're not ready to make our connection real and in person. My age range I'm looking for is 18-29 as I want to build towards creating a life together for the both of us. I am only interested in afab who are petite-average body and any height, I have no issue if you're taller than me. No preference for race, religion or political beliefs.

Note: Within a few weeks, potentially less time, I will require us to do some form of verification. The standard reddit verif pic will do initially, but I will not move forward without a live video call as catfishers, photoshop and others have become too powerful and prevalent.

About me: I'm Asian American, California native and working in the tech industry. I'm 5'8 170 lbs with smooth black hair. No tattoos or piercings and no glasses. I'm DDF, though 420 friendly.

In my free time I enjoy going on walks, hiking in the beautiful wheat colored hills, hitting the gym, playing pickleball, playing videogames (LOL, Deadlock, Dont starve, TFT, Valorant, CS2, etc), reading (fantasy and sci-fi), writing, going out to various social events, watching tv/movies.

Personality wise, I'm cerebral and introverted. I tend to prefer spending more meaningful time with fewer people than going out with large social groups. I still enjoy a nice holiday party or friends' trip to somewhere nice like Lake Tahoe.

As a partner, I'm a romantic who loves loving and giving affection. Showing my partner how much I care about her and how important she is in my life. Communication, Honesty and trust are key factors in my relationships that I try to uphold and I hope you'll buy into that philosophy and put in the work to make our relationship work.

Kinks: I'm into a lot of things, but here are my top faves and I'm eager to hear what you're interested in. DDlg, Anal, Facefucking, free use, slapping, praise, degradation, aftercare, restraints, CNC, bondage, choking, hair pulling, orgasm control, TPE, domestic discipline/training, piss play, exhibitionism.

Limits: Scat, blood, needles, anything illegal, cutting, any permanent harm.

I am 100% monogamous, but am open to MFF threesomes if you are interested in those.

I am a strict and demanding dom who expects a lot out of my submissive, but good behavior always comes with reward. Lacking behavior receives punishment in kind. All of this will be communicated and negotiated beforehand.

What I'm looking for in my submissive: A good head on her shoulders who understands her submission should be earned. A nerd who sees herself spending a lot of her time with me. Someone who is able to communicate her desires and boundaries. It is okay if you are shy at first, I do not mind working with you to build your skills. An eagerness to explore, have fun and grow through her submission.

Let me know if this interested you by responding with a few lines about where you think we mesh well. Include any questions you have for me as well.

Here is a question for you: "What draws you to being submissive?" My answer to the flip-side: "Simply put, Power. Power makes me feel safe and the successfuly handling of the responsibility that comes with another person's Power fulfills me"