Hey to all the females on BDSMpersonal People!

About me

I am Mike, 49 years old and come from and live in Germany. My English is pretty good, so those are the two languages that work for me. Even in my earliest memories I was always dominant, I could only really name myself when I was about 21. Since then I've had a few relationships that have shaped me and my preferences.

I see myself as a teacher-dom molding you into the perfect "everything".

What am I looking for?

I am looking for a submissive woman who would like to serve, whose fulfillment is not only to be submissive but whose goal is to give up control in many areas. Who longs to be the perfect partner to a very dominant man. Who draws her pleasure from giving me some. You should want to support and want it that way, to give up control and to obey. An optional thing would be if you like a daddy dom.

What I am not looking for?

Working against each other, violence or persuasion, discussions or arguments, threats of punishment and other nonsense. I avoid people who think they are submissive by doing tasks badly because they like the punishments that follow. I don't want to change the picture of yourself to the outer world. I am not interested in "outing" you as a sub to others. I am not interested to slut up your life to others during your clothes or some tasks that are risky and get you caught in public. Your work or family should not notice it. I like the secret that belongs to both of us and no one else should ever know what kind of relationship we have.

My world

You may be asking yourself, what is it that I offer you? Basically, it's a world of rules, rituals, roles you take on and tasks. I give you a tight construct that you can imagine as a corset, one that gives you stability and comfort, but never crushes you or takes your breath.

A well thought-out system of rules, rituals, punishments and tasks. Many hundreds have come together in the meantime and we can add those to our world that we both want to use to make you my perfect sub. You should like the fact that I control and determine your life. In many areas, but we'll leave out areas you don't like. But I'm also okay with you saying you don't want limits. That can and generally should go a long way. We will make the most of what is possible online. And who knows, maybe the whole thing is just preparation for a real meeting or even a real relationship in the distant future. I don't want to rule that out. A few examples of what I would like to do: I'd like to decide what you do in your free time, what clothes you wear, and also give you little secret tasks in your everyday life that you'll only do for me. I would like to give you the feeling that I am in control of you.

The Dealbreaker?!

Great, if you've read this far, let's move on to something essential. Since we probably won't be living next door to each other, we are limited to an online relationship.

Therefore it is of course an advantage if you accept to send pictures/videos at some point. To protect you it should be anonymous pictures without recognizable details. Since I don't know your address or your full name, this should give you the necessary security at the beginning and make pictures possible. I think it is very important to see you and to give you the feeling of being seen. Especially to be used by me. This is often a deal-breaker that I can't understand. Of course, you have to build up a certain level of trust. I don't expect it from the start. But at a certain point it is necessary. And at some point I will want to see your face. If we decide it together. I never force things like that. But if we grow closer together, it will come naturally. Giving up anonymity.

I don't think what I've said so far is enough for you to decide whether you want to try it. But if at this point you think it's worth a try, then reach out for me. And we should then find out in many conversations whether we want to try it together. Even if you think a part of my message could be a dealbreaker for you, tell me.

The far future

It should not be just #online forever. If we have a very good working connection, a good vibe and everything, both of us should have the wish to see each other in person. I know that you are most likely from far far away and this would be difficult. But there is still the hope in me, to have this as a real relationship, physically together. Would be nice if you have the same dream too. But as a realist I search #online and I am not pushing anything to meet in person.

Thanks for reading.

Mike