Hi everyone! As the title of this post says, I'm a 20 y/o F looking for something long-term in Utah (I do not have the attention span for something long distance, if it's not right infront of me I will forget it exists). Also monogamous, in situations like these I don't like sharing. Age wise, I would prefer people under the age of 35.

Warning, this is a long post.

About myself:

Physically I am 5'3, asian, not quite sure what my body type would be since I'm not skinny but I'm also not chubby, not ripped but still athletic (used to go to the gym religiously until I got injured).

By nature I am an introvert, but can adapt easily if needed (although I will need a good solid in bed rotting session after interacting with a lot of people). I am more of a homebody, but I enjoy hiking, going to cafes to read a book or get work done, I also enjoy going on walks downtown or parks for no reason. Also road trips to national parks are chefs kiss.

I really appreciate good communication and transparency, e.g. if something feels wrong, I will tell you right then and there and I expect the same.

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for someone that I can enjoy the little things in life with, have deep talks with and also random stupid ones, someone to learn from and grow with, and most importantly someone who has substance.

I have noticed that a lot of people in the dating pool are very bland or aren't interested in connecting with someone, just want something quick and casual. Personally, not interested in that, so if you're looking for something quick n easy I suggest you move along. With that in mind, I am not looking to rush into a dynamic/relationship, I want/need to get to know a person first.

NSFW:

I am a switch (getting the best of both worlds), but sub leaning and can/will be a brat. I find myself posting on this subreddit because the people I have met so far on dating apps have been pretty vanilla and a bit disappointing, since most talk a lot but deliver little or nothing (it would've been fine if they were just honest).

Kinks: Some that I can think of right now are orgasm control and denial, impact play, breath play, bondage, marking, overstim.

Hard limits: Scat, watersports, anything that can lead to permanent damage (physical, emotional, mental), anything illegal.

If you're interested, feel free to reach out and tell me about yoursel! Just make sure to add a 🥐 so I know you read this post. If not I won't respond.