Hello there!

Depending on your time zone, this will be a good morning, afternoon or evening. Details like that are, for the time being, inconsequential -the universe has a twisted sense of humor, and while kindred spirits may find it easy to overcome the boundaries of distance, those of Morpheus might be harder to beat at first.

As many people, I tend to ramble in certain situations. Please, do try to read my ad, I put a lot of effort into it, since I want to give you as many tools as possible to choose whether to message or not (although, if you prefer, there will be some bullets to give you the short version). Please, however, do read it, sadly I’ve been approached by people who seem to ignore some important point.

About me

I am based in Mexico City, 31, a lawyer (corporate, although I have some experience in asylum law and LGBTQI /human rights defense). Nerdy, geekish, curious and inquisitive, I am a creature of habit and contradiction. I devour trivia and random bits of knowledge, and have a particular knack for political theory, social history and neo-colonialism.

I am in pretty decent shape; exercise regularly, do no drugs and only drink socially. I am very much into bouldering, gaming, reading, cooking and am a huge animal lover, with one of my dreams being to open an animal shelter. I would say I am professionally successful, although my career can sometimes be demanding, it can be very rewarding. Odd as it may be, it also is surprisingly international: while my current placing in Mexico, I am looking into opportunities in Belgium, Germany, France and Spain. I speak English and Spanish and am currently learning both French and German.

Physically I am on the shorter side, although I have been told I give tall-person vibes. I have also been told I have a great ass by no fewer than 7 girls, which is a compliment I will gladly take.

While I'm not opposed to sheer physical attraction, I am considerably more of the mental chemistry and value-compatibility type. I crave for intimacy and vulnerability, not just yours, but mine, and believe deeply into emotional and mental connection, with commitment, as the main drive of a dynamic. This, for me, also means I'm monogamous, although I do not demand nor require it from you (at least, not right away).

Finally, I can say I am very far left. I can respect certain disagreements, but if you are queerphobic, we are probably not gonna get along. Just putting it out there.

The Search

What I'm looking for is a blend of seriousness and humor, tenderness and harshness. I believe I thrive in paradoxes, and as someone whose political beliefs largely clash with his kinks, I enjoy the beauty in the darkness and the freedom in the restraint.

While I very much enjoy the role of the monster and the pervert (and don't get confused, I can be very cruel and manipulative, if needed), I also enjoy being a protector and a safe space. To me. my sub is a gem, and her submission a gift which I treasure. Thus, while I adore degrading and humiliating, I am also the kind of dom who will learn to cook your favorite dish and remember your favorite wine to pamper you after a hard day. Cause, sex drive or not, we are people, and I believe in tending to the emotional needs as much as to the physical ones.

Far as my kink go, heres a very curated list: *Humiliation/Degradation/Objectification *TPE *Praise *Aftercare *Orgasm Control and Denial *Audio *Outfit control *CNC

My limits are the usual: children, animals, illegal stuff. Honestly, as long as proper, genuine consent is granted, I'm probably OK with it. I believe that exploring and learning together is one of the cutest, most rewarding aspects of BDSM, so I am willing to try most stuff.

While this can be born online, I'd like to transition to IRL eventually. Thankfully, my position allows me to make that realistic. I just say this because I do not want a thing to be online-only.

Finally, while I have no strict preference on age, I'd love it if you were in the 23-45 range, but of course, flexibility is always possible.

About You

And finally, I want to talk to YOU, the one who made it all the way down here: I know that threads like mine are abundant. So are Doms (....and "doms"). I cannot guarantee a perfect fit; I can promis effort and commitment. There are few certainties in life, but what I can guarantee is that, if the spark is there, I will put my very best into making this feasible.

Night,

Emilio