Hey there! I'm a 33 year old dominant from Chicago who spends a lot of time traveling, thus I'm open to chatting with anyone in the US. I have 14 years of experience as a dom, and for the last few years I've developed a really strong craving to dominate a couple.

This idea started a few years ago when I met up with an old friend in his respective city. He was recently married, and it was my first time meeting his wife. I didn't realize she would be included in all our weekend activities, but I had no issues with her being there - she was cute, a bit of an artsy type like myself, and easy to talk to. When we went out that night, I'd find her being really close to me, sometimes sitting next to me at bars and restaurants while my friend sat across, or she'd walk next to me instead of him, little things like that. These things didn't really register as significant until we ended up back at their apartment after we'd all had a few drinks. My friend was showing me around his apartment and encouraged me to get comfortable while he put on a vinyl record and poured some wine. His wife made herself comfortable on the loveseat couch next to me, physically touching me. My friend not only didn't seem to mind, he seemed to almost encourage this. He made a few self-deprecating remarks about how we look next to each other (I'm a 6'5" former athlete, he's a skinny short guy) and he made a "joke" about his wife being super into me, and also commented how they're pretty "bohemian" with their sex lives - as he did this, his wife literally cuddled up closer to me and made a sensual "mmhm" in agreement. I sensed that if I wanted to, I could absolutely play into this and escalate the sexual tension, but I made the decision to not attempt anything sexual with a friend's wife. I didn't want to complicate a 20 year friendship, but the desire was there, and the seed was planted.

Since there are a lot of pre-conceived notions about bulls, cucks, and three person dynamics, I'll clarify what I'm looking for here:

You're a healthy, happy, established couple who has been together at least a few months. Maybe you're new to kink, or maybe you've experimented quite a bit. I'd like to get to know both of you and start as friends, then gradually build up to being a dominant figure to both of you. This will start online, but if all goes well, will escalate to calls and eventually getting together in person. I'd like to experiment with bull/cuck play, dominating you together as a couple, and dominating the female partner individually (though this could fall under bull/cuck play). This is a loose sketch of what I'm looking for, and I look forward to hearing your input and ideas as well.

Some aspects of the dynamic I'm after:

• Safety, respect, boundaries, and consent come before everything else
• Rules around how you behave towards me and towards each other - for example, you both address me as sir, both of you need permission to orgasm or have sex with each other etc.
• These rules would be enforced by discipline (spanking, humiliation, privileges revoked etc.)
• This would be closed, with none of the 3 of us being active outside this dynamic without prior communication and consent
• I'm open to the male having anywhere between zero and moderate physical involvement (spanking, rough handling, collaring etc.), but will *not* be doing anything penetrative with the male
• I'm open to varying degrees of intimacy with the female, from limited sexual play all the way up through bull breeding and everything in between

Ideal candidates would be:

• 20 or 30 somethings
• Mature, reliable, communicative
• Both boyfriend and girlfriend are informed and involved from the first message - no exceptions
• HWP, easy on the eyes, not many tattoos or body modifications (no offense, just not my thing)
• Drug and disease free and able to verify the latter
• Preference for intellectual, artistic, or academic types
• The female should be sexually submissive or a switch (but not strictly dominant)
• The male should be sexually submissive, have cuckold tendencies, be bi-curious, or some combination of these (but should not be dominant)
• Ideally from Chicago or a nearby city, or from somewhere in the US driving distance to a major airport.

If you're interested, chat or DM me with the following:

• Ages
• Location
• Physical descriptions - SFW pictures welcome
• A little about your existing relationship and what you're seeking
• Your activities and interests outside of kink

I look forward to hearing from you!