Hey all, I have been into BDSM and kink for over four years and in and out of dynamics in that time, but this is the first time I have made a post like this, so buckle in because I have gone through a lot of trial and error and know what I deserve and want in a D/s or M/s dynamic.

A little bit about me physically. I'm 5'5" with collarbone length brunette hair I dye blonde, blue eyes, DD tits and a cunt I keep natural, although I am open to getting waxed. I am 220lbs, so I am in that mid-size/plus-size range, but by no means BBW or anything like that. I say all this cause I know a lot of Men are wanting skinny, with a bubble ass, and that is just not me. So, I'm happy to share SFW pictures if you're interested.

So, if I haven't scared ya off yet, a bit about me kink wise is that I am 100,000% a submissive. I have learned a lot about myself over the years and what I not only like and want, but crave and desire on a much baser level. Those who truly understand how a power dynamic works will understand when I say that I know my worth and what I deserve and that I want a Dom who understands and values those things as well, because that is a person who I will gladly and willingly submit every single aspect of myself to. Yes, trust must be build and mutual respect established, but if a dynamic has the right foundation it can be a really fun, rewarding and beneficial thing for all involved.

As far as what kinks I am into it's boring to say 'all of them', but what I am the most into can really be boiled down to CONTROL, or rather the giving up of that control in whatever ways or aspects of my life that my Dom wants. I will include kinks and aspects of control I have experience with, but by no means is this a cumulative list. *please note the latter end of this list is more like subreddits I enjoy watching and things that turn me on as I have never been in an in-person dynamic

Edging control/denial, orgasm control/denial, bathroom control, food control, TPE, rules and punishments, tasks, sharing pictures and videos, humiliation, degredation, location monitoring, clothing control, nipple clamping, nipple banding, tit banding, body writing, sounding, porn/erotica control, hypnosis, pain slut training, cock worship, Male superiority, misogyny, gender traitor, blow jobs, deep throat, face fuck, breath play/control, bondage, female inferiority, somnophilia.

Limits are blood, scat, diapers, knives, needles, little play, pet play (unless hum/deg)

I have not been in a dynamic for about 4 months now, and I can definitely tell I need edging and orgasm training again, and pain slut training, so, you have been warned 😉 I do have a bratty side, but if I'm in subspace I tend to be extremely submissive and the brattiness tends to come out when I'm bored, want attention, or want a punishment. I have noticed my bratty side can also come out when I've had a bad day and need to be taken out of my head, or I need to not play for that day and told to just go cuddle up and relax or just talk instead, if that makes sense. I'm working on being better at communicating those nuances as it's understandably difficult for a Dom to tell the difference, especially in an online dynamic.

Outside of kink I am a very goofy, fun person who will talk your ear off about my passions, or whatever hyper-fixation I may be on that day. I graduated from college this past May with a BA in Music, I have played the piano since I was 6yo. I love animals, and currently have one cat. I'm a bit of nerd when it comes to movies, TV shows, books and music, so let's talk about your favorite movie and actors when I'm not gooning and edging! I am a bit of a homebody, and am perfectly happy with my Kindle and a bowl of popcorn, but I love horseback riding, 4-wheelin', jet skiing, and going to see a movie or theater show as well. I love watching football after a Sunday afternoon nap. I go currently live with my parents, but am job searching and am really hoping to move out and get my own place soon, but my living situation shouldn't impact a dynamic to much at the moment.

There is obviously a lot more about myself, but I think all of the above is a good place to start. If you've made it this far and think we align on kinks and dynamic mindset please reach out as I would love to chat and share a 🤠 emoji if ya did make it this far.

I am ideally looking for someone 29 or younger, and within 2-3 hour time difference to myself.