TL;DR I am looking for a girl who has a secret desire to be held accountable towards her goals and who wishes to be punished / disciplined if she fails to reach them.

We'll get into that in a bit but first some more about me.

Outside of the bedroom, I am reserved, easy to get along with, and relaxed. I have eclectic interests which includes books, humor, travel, people, politics and business. Physically I’m 6’3’’, well educated, successful, sane and have 10 fingers. I live in NYC.

I would like to find a dynamic in which I can provide structure, guidance and discipline to someone that needs it. It gives me immense personal satisfaction to know that I am helping mold you to become a better version of yourself.

If we click, we will carve out some time every week (or month) during which I would offer accountability sessions where you can discuss a specific goal/objective with me and periodically check in with me on your progress. If you fail to meet your milestones, you will be punished and if you want chided/humiliated for it, although I fully recognize that additional dynamic is not for everyone.

Things that I would enjoy helping you with:

* Fitness / Diet
* Career goals
* Personal transformations

**The type of girl that I am most attracted to is:**

* Highly intelligent and ambitious but craving structure

* Has a deep desire to be put in her place when she is falling behind / out of line

* Is fit and wants to get fitter / Already on her way towards being fit. I am not attracted to overweight girls. Sorry to be blunt but I'd rather disclose this upfront.

**My rules / non-negotiables:**

* We start on Reddit and then move to a different platform

* You are comfortable sharing pictures and getting on video after trust has been established. I am NOT looking for a penpal.

* Discretion is a must.

* I am married and not looking to change that. I will not be available 24/7 to talk with you and I don't expect that from you either. We will schedule time to talk every week.

* You are willing to invest the time and effort needed to make this a worth both of our time.

I understand that what I am looking for is unique and my rules are rather limiting but for the right person I believe this can be personally rewarding.

**If this appeals to you, drop me a chat with your first name, age, a brief description of yourself and the goal(s) with which you are seeking accountability. **