hello~ I’m a 23 y/o submissive lesbian located in LA who is hoping to find a very dominant girlfriend to belong to and to love. (wanting a serious, in person, monogamous relationship) My age preference is 23-34 I would love to find a girlfriend who is dominant both in a psychological and physical sense. I find it very attractive when a woman is possessive and good at making decisions (I struggle with decision paralysis) And although I like a gf to be super dominant and for there to be a d/s power dynamic in the relationship where I belong to her; I also want to know we care for eachother, build trust and emotional intimacy, ideally building a life together if things work out well.

Additionally, with intimacy I like being overpowered, dominated, treated a bit rough, and being on the receiving end of CNC/freeuse among other things. I would like for you to be the one in control and do whatever you want with me. (I of course want to pleasure you too if you want that, but would prefer you to still be in control and dominant about it).

A bit about me: •I’m 5’2, feminine, living in LA, and a major homebody •I love to crochet, read (fantasy), and game •I love the shows Avatar the Last Airbender (original) and The Magicians •When I really like someone I pour a lot of my energy, focus, and emotions into them. •If you’re someone special to me you might get some cute handwritten letters/cards decorated with pretty stationary and maybe wax seals from me whenever an occasion arises~ •I’m neurodivergent •I have a precious little cat who means the world to me. I had wanted a cat my entire life and finally adopted her after I graduated uni. She makes me so happy and nothing shall separate me from her!! So needless to say; must like cats!!

(And on the topic of pets… while I don’t mind briefly interacting with dogs, unfortunately I am not a dog person and don’t want to ever have a dog, so if you have a dog that’s a dealbreaker for me :( )

Lastly, I would say the only major preference I have with style/appearance is that I’m not attracted to specifically the super short hairstyles that are common for men to have, because although I know there’s a good amount of women who do that style, it unfortunately reminds me of men too much. Other than that I don’t mind whether a woman is masc or femme or whatever else in terms of style and personality and like am open to any!!

Feel free to reach out to me if you’re interested with your asl and whatever else. I’d like to get to know each other a bit as well as talk about eachother preferences and boundaries. I can be a bit awkward at first and struggle to initiate stuff, so if you don’t mind leading the convo at first, I would appreciate it. (and please verify that you are a woman😭 I have absolutely zero interest in talking to men; I am a lesbian!!! Looking for other lesbians!!! (Or sapphics) NO MEN PLS.)