Hey,

I have been submissive for as long as I can remember, and have been looking for an opportunity to express myself as a submissive with a long term partner for a while. Online dating has been difficult as after a few dates, or months of dating, when the kink conversation comes up, I have found in most of my relationships that we are not compatible on a kink or sexual level. Posting here, I am hoping to find someone that can understand who I am in that regard right away, and then hopefully develop and organic and long term relationship both in and outside of kink

Outside of kink I am a pretty normal guy: I play hockey once a week, play video games (pc mainly), write and compose music, enjoy watching sci fi and fantasy shows, watch anime, play mtg, read as often as I can, work a 9-5, and enjoy going out to bars and breweries with my friends, or spending a night in playing board games. I am really passionate about a lot of my hobbies and could talk your ear off about them, and nothing makes me happier than listening to someone do exactly the same. I have been told I am a good listener, and I thoroughly enjoy listening to people gush about what makes them happy.

My kink experience: Unfortunately most of my kink experience is online, I have only had two past partners that were comfortable in the dominant role, and one of the two couldn't be 100% dominant. I am capable of switching, but being dominant is not fulfilling for me whatsoever, I am happiest as 100% subbing, and am ideally looking for a longterm relationship where I can 100% sub for a dom/domme. I have extensive experience online, so I would be open to starting a relationship online with the long term plan to move into an IRL dynamic. IRL i had one relationship where I was 100% sub, it was the happiest I had ever been, and I felt extremely fulfilled and realized and heard and safe. I have been chasing those feelings since.

Kinks, etc: I would much prefer to discuss this in a private chat with anyone interested in talking to me. But I can tell you I am very open minded, open to a lot of different kinks and fetishes. I have a list of 3 or 4 that are musts for me, and am always open to trying new things. When it comes to scenes, I am very obedient, willing to endure and push myself to please my dominant. Aside from scenes, I am very service oriented, and in a long term dynamic would love to do chores for you, rub your feet when you come home after a long day at work, hold a drink for you while you read a book or watch a show, or even be your foot rest. A sense of ownership is really important to me. the more control and ownership I feel my dominant has over me, the happier I am.

Aside from scenes and general d/s dynamics, I'd love to share hobbies with my dominant, video games, shows, movies, books, anything. I'd love to cook you dinner, or go out to eat together, act totally normal (but maybe have some public play fun) out in public and look like a totally normal couple. but once we get home, behind closed doors, I am collared, leashed, and completely owned by you. I really enjoy the dichotomy and the change of pace from when we are in public to when we would be in private.

So yeah, if you are looking for a loyal, obedient, and loving sub and would like to establish a long-term relationship/dynamic, and if anything in this post has sparked interest for you, feel free to send me a chat or private message. even if you just want to talk video games, sports, kink, I am always open to talk to like minded people. Thank you so much for your time, and for reading my post, regardless. Hope to hear from some of you wonderful people!

-H