So often it seems like everyone just wants the instant gratification. "Call me daddy, yes sir". Like what?

I get people want to have their needs met, but I feel like it would be so much better if you spent the time to actually learn about the person, see if you get along outside of kink. Like so many of my relationships that got its start based on kink were so much better because we took the time to actually learn one another and get that connection. Idk, maybe I'm just old fashioned lol. I just feel like whenever I talk to someone on here, its immediately sexual, I understand making sure kinks match up and that works, but like so much of this dynamic requires trust, you have to have to have it. And in order to have it I feel like you have to actually have a connection with someone. and gain that trust instead of just immediately jumping into a cnc situation or heavy impact play.

Kink wise I am a dom. If you're into it I probably have experience with it. I've been a daddy, a soft dom, Sadist, Degrader, tabooer? (is that even a word?). It honestly just depends on what my partners needs are, and I can fill them. Honestly, just let me know your kink and interests, and I will probably fucking love it. We can talk more about it in private.

As for me personally, I fucking love to cook. Whether it is greek, or italian or mexican, I love making it. if you have any dishes you like I would love to learn to cook it! Or we could just cook it together.

I work as an editor for content creators, and I stay pretty busy, but making time for my partner is easy.

Gaming is also a hobby (I mean im a male on reddit I feel like thats pretty common lol) I don't do it that much anymore due to my workload but, it would be cool if you had an interest in gaming especially on pc whether its like stardew or don't starve, deadlock, or apex or valorant fuck it we will even throw overwatch into the mix lmao

Honestly, it would just be awesome, if even while I'm working we could sit in a call and screenshare shows (anime, netflix, youtube tiktoks, whatever lol) , god knows ive been on a massive suits grind. Or we could just sit in call, do our own thing and talk occassionally, Idk just having someone there is mad comfortable.

Preferably hit me with a chat, so much easier to manage than DMs and easier to keep up with lol.