I know exactly what I want, and if you’re a young, open-minded woman looking for a mature man who can be both gentle and firm, then we should connect. In everyday life, I’m looking for a partner who meets me on equal footing, someone to laugh with and enjoy life together. But when we’re in bed, I take control, and you will submit to me completely.
Me: I'm a typical white Austrian with a decent job (not rich though) and an apartment, meaning I can sustain myself comfortably (details upon clicking and getting to know each other better). I’m 5'8" (174 cm), around 175 lbs, with short dark brown hair and brown eyes. My build is somewhere between average and a dad bod, and for those curious, I’m a bit thicker than average where it counts. Pictures only after a real connection has been formed from my side. I enjoy watching movies and TV shows, exploring new content on YouTube, cycling, and I have a passion for role-playing games like Pen & Paper. I also used to practice karate and might get back into it.
I’m Daniel, 36, and I’m seeking a younger woman who loves the idea of letting go at the right moment and being guided by me. There’s nothing more exciting than sharing a moment of passion where you know you belong to me, and I show you exactly what it means to be dominated.
In life, I’m calm and collected, someone who listens and interacts on the same level. But once we’re alone, the rules change. In bed, there’s no debate—just commands that you eagerly follow as I take you exactly where you belong: under my control.
I’m looking for someone who is clean, discreet, and just as curious as I am. We can take our time building trust, but when the moment comes, I expect you to give yourself to me completely. Whether it’s gentle teasing or hard discipline, I’ll make sure it’s an experience you won’t forget.
What you get:Â A man with the above traits who tries to be understanding, is communicative, relatively uncomplicated when it comes to everyday life decisions, and has well-defined career goals that he is on a good path to achieving. If we click, you will never be taken for granted, and I will give you a lot of time and affection both physically and emotionally. However, we would first start out online until we have formed a deep mutual connection, but we can absolutely swap to a different way of communicating at some point.
What I look for in a woman:
Looks and age:
- Age range 18-28. I like to be older/more experienced as I just feel more comfortable that way.
- Slim is a bonus; curvy (in the right places) is fine, but plus-size/obese isn’t my preference.
- Piercings (especially septum) are not attractive to me.
- Tattoos are okay if they aren’t too many (legs/shoulders are fine, but not the entire back/front/face).
- Ethnicities: I’m particularly drawn to white or Asian women.
- All hair styles, long or short, can be fine, but I’m not into bald women.
Personality:
- Submissive: I’m definitely more of the dominant type, but no man can function without a strong partner by his side. I don’t expect blind obedience, but I do appreciate traditional values where I lead and you follow. You can have a busy career or stay at home; what matters is that you’re happy in your role and comfortable with me taking the lead.
- Family driven:Â I want someone to start a family with. Of course we can begin as friends, but you should be willing to get serious after some time.
- Communicative: It’s important to me that you’re open and honest about what’s on your mind. Let’s talk things out rather than letting them fester.
- Common Sense: I’m aligned with rational thinking and am not interested in extremist ideologies. I respect women’s rights and believe in equality but prefer a partner who values common sense over radical views.
- Basic Hygiene: This goes without saying, but it’s important.
- Intelligence: If you’re smart, interested in science or math, that’s a big plus.
- No smoking or drugs: I don’t smoke or use drugs, and I expect the same. Moderate alcohol use is fine, but I’m not interested in heavy drinkers, especially if it leads to bad behavior.
That’s all I can think of for now. If you check most or all of these boxes and are interested, hit me up via chat/DM and tell me which boxes you don’t check and why, and we can see if there’s room to be flexible (I can’t promise that without details though). Feel free to add a picture if you want and tell me what you’re looking for. See you!
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