I find myself in the middle of being (i) not platonic or vanilla enough for a true platonic friendship, (ii) not dirty enough for a master-slave dynamic. That is to say, my hard limits include -
Anal, scat, gore, excessive pain, mummification, 24x7 TPE dynamics, master slave dynamics, being called a daddy (unless it's a joke :P), age play
I do enjoy power exchange, but it is more of a hobby to play as a dom or sub friend or partner rather than a lifestyle. What I enjoy the most is rope bondage and teasing light tickles. Shibari and rope dresses, and inescapeable but safe ties would be right up my alley. Orgasm control and light pain definitely spice things up too.
I'm more of a homebuddy. My adventures are usually on the internet reading an interesting post or article. Or reading a book. Or papers*. Or playing board games [with you]. Or just lazing around enjoying peaceful music. I occasionally watch anime and play Honkai Star Rail, but I am also looking for a watch-buddy as it gets boring without anyone to share your experiences with! I'm largely into adventure and fantasy with a bit of action and romance thrown in. So, if you have suggestions, please ping!
If the idea of lazing around in the bed on a weekend entices you, definitely hit me up! I will look forward to add more spice to our lives through ropes and perhaps some light hearted power exchange.
*I'm a grad student. Should be here for a few years. And probably more if things work out between us :).
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