I've had some wonderful online relationships but I am looking for something that will eventually progress into something personal and physical. That's not something that will come quickly, but the closer we are or the more freedom we have to meet up, the more likely something will develop. I have an ideal in my mind of course but I am open to possibilities that I haven't considered.
About me, I'm 46, 6'2, and have a dad bod. I am single (technically divorced, no drama), with just myself to look after (there's story and tragedy there that I'm open about but I'm not going to put that here). My kinks are wide and varied but they all come down to Dominance and submission. There are a lot of things that turn me on and that I would enjoy working with a sub on like bondage and rope play, orgasm control/denial, erotic hypnosis, bimbofication, 1950's dynamics, TPE, CNC, and more. While I would love to find a sub that is into absolutely everything I am, please do not let that dissuade you from responding, I'm not expecting to find someone to fit into everything I like. Just because I enjoy something doesn't mean that it is something I have to have in a relationship, conversations and getting to know each other are more important to me. I've been described as a Daddy Dom in the past. I feel that's more because I'm deliberate and careful in most of my interactions, not because of any sort of ageplay. It isn't a limit for me, it's just not something I really enjoy. I'm looking for something that will start monogamously. I'm open to the idea of a poly relationship of some sort, but it's not what I currently desire.
I'm hoping to find a submissive that I can get to know, that I might have chemistry with, that is as open to new experiences with me as I am with them, who will devote herself to me as much as I devote myself to her, and that our outside interests can mostly align. Currently I'm looking for someone no younger than 32 and no older than 55. Those aren't hard limits though. Mentality is more important to me than body type, and while it would be wonderful to find someone who is callipygian, being willing to work to be healthy in all aspects would be a priority. You don't have to currently be healthy, but wanting to improve is desirable. You must be currently single or divorced.
Longer introductions will be more likely to get my attention, but I don't have any idea of the responses I might get to this. To be honest, with my luck lately I'm not really expecting any responses, but you may be exactly who I am wanting to find. Hopefully I'll hear from you soon
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