Hi all, I am fairly new to kink having only had 2 partners previously (both we’re slightly more vanilla than kinky) looking for an experienced soft/pleasure Dom. I had one experience with a hard Dom and that was not for me.

I am plus sized (aka FAT) so if that turns you off best to just scroll by. Also note if you start trying to Dom me right out of the gate I will block you. I do have sexual trauma so please do not push sexual role play within a few hours of speaking.

Do not try to tell me within minutes of meeting that I am YOUR sub. You don't have my consent for that. Do not try to talk me into sexual things before I am ready, you will be blocked. My submission is a GIFT and will only be given to the person I feel worthy of my submission.

Please be prepared for open and honest communication. If you're going to beat around the bush and be generally shady, you will be blocked, I'm not going to engage with that behaviour

I was born and raised in the US but lived in the UK for a couple of years before having to come back to take care of my dad. I am looking forward to moving back to the UK at some point and am open to those in the UK.

Right now I am working as a phone and computer repair technician, but my course of study and preferred area of work is pharmacy. In my spare time I enjoy writing, gaming, reading, mainly I do scripts for spicy audios and I was fortunate enough to have one published. I'm generally drawn to people who have what I call "Golden Retriever" energy, are nerdy and enjoy gaming. Please feel free to message me anytime, I'm looking forward to speaking :)

A recent development is that my dad has passed away as of April 11,2024. So I am actively starting the process of saving and obtaining work to move back to the UK while helping my step mother settle my dad’s estate