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30 [M4F] #NewYork #Online – Experienced Dominant Seeking Submissive for Deep and Passionate D/s Dynamic (Photo)
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bumbugshamb is a male age 30 looking for a female in New York
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TL;DR: I’m a 30-year-old Dominant from New York, committed to creating meaningful, transformative relationships. With almost a decade of experience, I value trust, communication, and mutual growth. I’m looking for a submissive woman (18-35) who craves a D/s dynamic centered on personal discovery, emotional depth, and respect for boundaries. Let’s build something lasting and fulfilling together.

Photo: https://imgur.com/9Kcox0t

Bio:
I’m a Dominant male living in the vibrant city of New York. For me, dominance isn’t just a role—it’s a part of my nature, a driving force behind the deep connections I aim to build. My approach is equal parts strength and empathy, placing importance on being both a guide and a protector.

Outside of the lifestyle, I’m passionate about various interests. I’m an avid reader, diving into philosophy, psychology, and literature because understanding the human mind is essential for real dominance. The arts are another source of inspiration for me—whether it’s wandering through galleries or getting lost in music, from classical and jazz to the occasional deep house track that fuels my workouts.

Fitness is a significant part of my life. Whether I’m strength training, running along the river, or practicing martial arts, staying physically and mentally sharp is important. I believe a Dominant should provide stability, not just emotionally but physically and intellectually as well.

Kinks:
My interests cover a range of power exchange dynamics, with trust and discipline being the core elements. I enjoy exploring bondage, impact play, and sensory deprivation as tools to deepen the bond between Dominant and submissive. Rituals and structure play an important role in creating a foundation for the dynamic.

However, consent is paramount. My hard limits include anything non-consensual, scat, extreme degradation, and activities that undermine dignity. To me, BDSM is about balancing control with care, and dominance with affection.

Experience and What I’m Looking For:
With nearly a decade of experience in the lifestyle, I’ve honed my ability to cultivate strong, meaningful D/s relationships. I take a thoughtful, deliberate approach, ensuring that trust and mutual respect are at the center of everything. I enjoy guiding submissives through self-discovery, using patience and communication to build the bond.

I’m seeking a submissive woman (18-35) who is eager to grow, both in the lifestyle and in life. Ideally, you’re located near New York, though distance can be worked around for the right connection. I value someone who is intellectually curious and shares a love for life’s enriching experiences—whether through books, travel, or simply spending time together.

I’m a firm believer that communication is the key to success in any D/s dynamic. I’m invested in creating a safe space where you can express your desires, fears, and ambitions freely. Consent, boundaries, and clarity are non-negotiable in every scene. I’m not here to rush anything—I want to build something that’s profound, passionate, and long-lasting.

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