I am a soft dominant looking for love! Friendships are cool too. If you are looking for something long term, short term, or just want a safe space where you can explore things, I am your guy.

You can call me Vivian, he, him, his. I am the prince of all nerds. Me: loves literature, dark chocolate, claw machines, gaming (both of the video and tabletop variety), really heavy music, and anti-fascism. You: the girliest girl who has brains, beauty, a great sense of obedience, and loves being choked. Glasses and an ACAB tattoo are optional but huge bonuses.

More details about me, including my favorite novels, music albums, some of my favorite films, and also my BDSM test results, are compacted here into this nice Imgur album for your convenience.

Here are some other important things in bullet points!

• I am a real person! I am not a catfish, not a seller, and I am not here to waste your time. I will never ghost you either. I value communication and sincerity lot and if things are just not working, I'd prefer if one of us is willing to communicate it. I am willing to verify each other with selfies right away if we establish a conversation.
• I am in the PDT timezone.
• I am not dating anyone, not married, and I am not into any kind of non-monogamy.
• I am not religious in any way and I do not have right wing politics. If you are looking for someone very spiritual or for a conservative tradhusband, look elsewhere.
• I am child free and plan on never having children.
• I really do know how to choke you safely and properly! I am a smart cookie who has taken lots of hard science classes.
• Its easier to explain what I am not into rather than everything I am into. Some of my hard boundaries are, but not limited to, anal, financial domination, urine, scat, vomit, incest play, extreme age play, extreme pet play, extreme sadism, torture, slave play, gorea, race play, necrophilia, CNC, ABDL, and sounding. That is everything off the top of my head! I am generally not into that fringe, ritualistic kind of BDSM.
• Consent matters to me. I am always going to be checking in on your safety and comfort, because consent is fluid and nothing turns me on more than your enthusiasm.

If you liked everything you read so far, do not be afraid to shoot me a message. If you do message me, be sure to include a good name for you, pronouns, and what safeword you want us to use in your first message. ;)

Otherwise, stay safe out there and good luck!