Hello everyone,

I would first off like to say thank you all for taking the time to read over my post. I know this ad may be rather long, but I made it long and descriptive because I would like for all of you who are interested to know exactly what I am looking for, and that you are sure that I am what you are looking for (initially at least). As you're reading this ad, I welcome you to ask any questions that you might have and PM me or send a chat, I am always open about myself and my thoughts. Enjoy.

Vanilla me

My name is Alex and I am 34 years old. I currently live in London and I have lived in UK for about 10 years of my life, the rest in southern Europe (I also travel to Balkans often due to work). I am currently finishing my PhD in political science, while I have studied Music, History and environmental management (didn't complete my studies on the last one).
I do spend a lot of my time reading and studying, as knowledge is one of my biggest kinks.
My offline hobbies usually are spent in theatres, musicals, live gigs from obscure bands, but I don't mind occasionally sitting down burning the mid-night oil and playing DnD, any interesting board game or online games from time to time.
I also like to exercise and spend a moderate amount of time in the gym. I am not a fit obsessed guy, not that I am ripped, but would like for you as well to be in healthy shape even if you don't exercise (Not being excessively in either direction that is). Not a deal breaker but I have to be honest in terms of physical preferences, as we all have them.
I am a big fun of AI advancements, space, and learning different cultures and languages (I speak 4 so far). I am not a very uptight person, and in general I can be very calm, laid-back, and welcoming with a sense of cynical and deadpan humour. Also, my tone of voice is very calm and flat, to the point even the closest to me are confused if I am angry, happy or I am just fooling them, This has the upside of making me a very convincing person when I engage even with the most absurd trolling.
I am similarly expecting a sort of engagement with the above hobbies, as nothing would make me happier than sharing music, discussing the feelings we have listening, debating and sharing art, words, novels or ideas. That doesn't mean that I expect you to be on an equal level, but to be willing at least to listen and consume,

NSFW me

I have had my share of experiences of the lifestyle involving bdsm on and offline, and that is why I feel confident enough in myself to find the right person for me. Some great experiences, quite a few bitter and many non-starters, similar to all of you reading my post I guess.
I am looking for a little who truly wants to learn and who is honest and committed in developing a mental connection with me. I have a lot of likes, and I pretty much tried everything from a true Controlling TPE Daddy to soft Daddy caring for his little. For me the most important thing is communication and compromise when it is needed. Not saying something is equal to dishonesty for me, as you will gradually build a mountain of emotions and frustrations that will be impossible for us to handle later on.
No matter what I would like to be your safety rope, and you to be mine. Taken from a very much loved song by Mick Flannery, I do believe that Daddies becomesl vulnerable and also find their safe zone with their littles, through connection, care, affection and deep understanding. Being there through the hardest and worst times.

So if my post was not clear enough so far, I must emphasize that I'm looking for mental connection first and foremost, from chatting endlessly with a knowledge of the end that leads to the end of knowledge, to listening to music together and sharing experiences and I do have a strict and controlling side as well as a nurturing and caring side with my little. It all comes because of care, and because I feel responsible for my little girl, her well being and her general success in life.

I will not disclose much about my kink side, I prefer this to be disclosed and developed through conversation. I am quite experienced as I wrote above, and that means quite flexible and confident about what I want.

Limits are of course anything that is permanent, scat, family, blood and no social suicide or exposure.

Safe word and aftercare are a must for me, and I write it down only because I spoke with a lot of people who disregarded or neglected that.

Thanks for reading through, do send a chat or message if you are interested but please do a bit more effort than a plain "hi"

Hope you enjoy the rest of your reddit and non reddit

P.s. Be decent and do not ghost. If you don't like something say it, say a goodbye and we both can move on with a good heart.