I’m an experienced, creative, active Dom looking for a sub who is equally passionate in life. #About me AKA “Who is this man?” Physically - I’m 28, single, white, dark brown hair/eyes, active/athletic (5’10/~160 lbs), booster vaccinated, non-smoker, clean/DDF.Personality - Think Ben Wyatt x Thomas Shelby. I’m a mixture of passion, support, and just the right amount of deviancy. I’ve been described as playful, sadistic, caring, communicative, honest, creative, mature, witty, curious, easy to talk to, driven, patient, open-minded... and a lot more. My love languages tend to be quality time, physical touch, and words of affirmation. Interests - Part homebody, part social. I’ve got a pretty eclectic assortment of interests, including: TV/film (almost any genre), archery (Olympic Recurve), music (I miss live shows), art (I likewise miss museums), games (tabletop video trivia), reading/writing (tied to my job), health (mental physical), cooking (it’s in my blood), civic activism/progressive social issues (I’m on the left), keyboards (mechanical musical), languages (I speak three and continuing to learn a fourth), value investing (Graham more than wallstreetbets), and machine learning (not the Skynet kind!). Hopefully we share a few interests already. Daily life - I’m goal-oriented. I have a career that I’m passionate about, and love to juggle multiple projects (both professionally and hobbies). I live in my own place (no roommates) and am financially independent. Plus lots of miles for travel! I consider D/s to be an essential part of my romantic relationship, not just something for the bedroom (more on that below). I will always make time for my partner and expect the same in return. Communication is a huge part of any healthy relationship. #Who and what I’m looking for Let’s be a kinky power couple together! Submission and D/s are not mutually exclusive from having agency in life. In fact, they’re complimentary. I’m looking for someone who considers herself passionate/driven/ambitious (whatever that means to you) - but also dreams of relinquishing control in the right hands. Someone craving to be with a trusted partner who will challenge her, and help her succeed in everything she desires in life through the care, safety, structure, pleasure, discipline of a holistic D/s dynamic... This lifestyle is meant to make us be the best version of ourselves for each other, so shall We? My ideal partner has the same qualities that I bring: she loves to explore/learn/try new things, she’s active/takes care of her physical mental health, she has goals, she is communicative, empathetic, giving, loyal, honest, kinky, emotionally available, not looking for a “sugar daddy”, and serious about finding a Dom partner. In other words, Morticia Addams x Beth Harmon. I’m genuinely open to every s-type identity (sub, little, middle, pet, brat, etc.). My only dealbreakers in a partner are: nicotine/cigarette smoker, not vaccinated, not pro-choice/not interested in birth control, any STIs/STDs, and/or voted for an orange man. * Car* #The kinky stuff Experience - Whether this is your first or fiftieth rodeo, I’m welcoming of all as I’ve been in the lifestyle for the past 10 years. In that time, I’ve had D/s relationships to different degrees (including DDlg, TPE, M/s, low/mid/high protocol) which have led me to narrow down what I need and look for, hence this post. I’m an open book and always happy to answer anything on your mind since I’m also an educator in the scene (with actual classes). If you’re curious and inquisitive, we’re probably a perfect match already! D/s dynamic - I consider myself your catharsis, comfort, and accountability rolled into one. Nurturing but exhilarating, sweet yet firm, dominant but respectful. The one constant is that I’m big on communication and care, making our relationship not just a safe-space but something unique to us. My partner is a priority for me, just as I want to be for her. That means I would like to chat regularly and spend time together since this is a real relationship. I’m also a believer in (negotiated) structure and rules beyond the bedroom. Each dynamic is unique so it’s not a one-size-fits-all. Obviously nothing happens until we’ve established clear connection, consent, and mutual respect. Much more to discuss together. My hard limits - ABDL/diapers and scat My kinks - Include impact play, hypnosis, bondage/shibari, sensation play, orgasm control/edging, some humiliation/degradation, praise, service, training/tasks/protocols, among others.