I know that I'm not for everyone. Just looking for my sub .

Me: I'm naturally very dominant and kind of serious which can be intimidating...or it can add to my naturally masculine, dominant energy. I understand that control should never be taken, nor would I ever attempt to. I am a patient, quiet person, and my goal is to entice my sub to give control over eagerly and willingly, safe in the knowledge that I would never abuse it. I have a long list of kinks, and I'm excited about learning and experimenting with the right sub. I spent 8 years in the Air Force doing several jobs I would consider cool. After getting out, I got into IT and now I work from home for a large company no one has ever heard of. I love to learn and research, and I'm always looking for a good mental challenge. I’ve been a bit of a homebody lately, but I do enjoy going out for adventures. I travel a fair amount and I want to take you with me (having a current passport is a plus)! I enjoy cooking, board games, escape rooms, tech projects, and re-watching my favorite shows, specifically Community and Letterkenny. I am passionate about coaching, and investing (both stock market and people). I am fairly involved in the community and organizations which will require some of my time. I have a very stoic disposition, but I do feel things deeply. I'd consider myself muscular with a little belly. Every weekday, I wake up and run to prevent myself from getting fat. I’m 5’ 7”, 190 lbs., olive skin, have a beard, and ** DDF ** I am no longer practicing religion and I’m currently attempting to build the life that I really want without jeopardizing my existing responsibilities. That being the case, I am new to this, and want someone I can learn and branch out with, to explore things I’ve never had the chance to.

My Ideal Sub (not all required)

23-34(F) You are a perfect mix of sub, slave. Willing to relocate for your ideal live-in, 24/7 dynamic and are wanting to maintain vanilla appearance to those not in the lifestyle. You have no children, but love them. You are a good communicator and can voice your wants and concerns in a respectful way.

Shy, introverted, naturally submissive, and a bit nerdy. You love puns, quick wit, and dry humor. Not afraid to go on adventures but equally comfortable staying in and relaxing together. Maybe you tend to overanalyze things and can be hypercritical of yourself at times. Hopefully, you're looking to explore subspace and desire to feel safe enough to give complete control, relax, submit, and turn your thoughts off. You prefer structure and rules that will be enforced in different ways.

Maybe your life experience is similar to mine in that you did your best in vanilla relationships maybe a religious background prevented you from exploring your sexuality, but now you have an opportunity to find the right person and explore in a shame free environment. Excited about instruction, training, and learning routine.

You submit your will because you have a strong desire to please and would do almost anything for the man who would do anything to keep you safe and satisfied. You want more than anything to be called a good girl, and to hear praise from your Dom. You don't consider yourself high maintenance and would love to live a small town, private life.

You crave to call your Dom; Daddy, Sir, or Master, not because he demands it of you, but because you want to reinforce roles in daily life and consider it a sign of respect and submission.

You take pride in your personal image. You know you're adorable and work regularly to maintain your fitness and a naturally beautiful, feminine appearance.

Your kinks and curiosities lists are long and you are ready to explore safely within the boundaries of a commited relationship. You're ready to talk openly about sexuality. You are not a masochist, maybe you like a little spank, pinching, and light choking to intensify orgasms, but you aren't looking to get bruised up.

A philosophy you might resonate with: There is freedom in surrendering all control.

Goal and growth oriented. Always learning and making your life and the lives of your loved ones better.

Bonus points for: oral fixations, other languages, tan skin, natural redheads, and OMG IF YOU CAN SING please.

Bottom Line: Disease and Drug free • Conventionally attractive (attraction both ways is a must) • No serious/unmedicated mental health issues • Knows what they want from this relationship • Looking for something IRL and long-term must be able to relocate • You are prepared to work on our relationship, learn, explore, and grow with me

Main kinks: cock worship/long cockwarming sessions, free use, 24/7 TPE, sleep play, wardrobe control, orgasm control, protocol, rimming

Interested in: bondage, CNC, spitting, within reason anything you want to try

**Limits: anything illegal, scat, blood/gore/vomit, pegging, extreme sadism, animals/furries, anything involving children, or anything that results in permanent damage or markings.

If you read this far, I'm very proud of you. If my image of my perfect sub describes you, be a good girl and send me message. Ask me about my Dom philosophy.