A bit of a long one, so please bear with me.

Big picture, I’m looking for a dominant who can help me lose weight. I’m currently 145lbs, and want to get down to 120lbs. I want you to control what I eat, and when I eat. Exercise routines. Weight check-ins. Photo proof (not NSFW). Rewards and punishments depending on how well I’m doing.

To get to the point though where I can let you control me to that extent, we need to be a fit. So here’s a bit about me and other good stuff:

I’m a graduate student, working on my thesis this year. Love reading. Walks. Voice messages. Sweet cocktails. Banter. Intellectual playfulness. Laughter. Naps. Sending specifically tailored tiktoks to friends. Being silly. Hugs. Platonic touches. Human rights issues are important to me.

We would be a good if you’re someone who:

• I can laugh with (!!)
• can be a friend first above all else
• observes…and remembers
• is 23-28 (if you’re a few years older, and you fit everything else, please still do send a message)

my kinks:

✨ being talked to in a slow/teasing/smirky/condescending/patronizing tone:

• “I know baby, I knowww”
• “Aw, that hurts?”
• “you’re such a good girl”
• “you can take it for me, yeah?”
• “you’re such a mess”
• “shhh, you’re being so loud”
• “you’re so needy”
• “shhh, just let it happen”
• “aw how cute, you’re starting to cry”
• “I didn’t say like it, I said do it”
• “I’m so proud of you”
• “I’ll kiss it to make it better”
• being mocked like I’m too worked up to be spoken like an adult (“you can’t even speak properly”/ “oh and you’re supposed to be sooo smart, huh”/ “you’re so dumb and adorable”)

✨being:

• taught a skill
• read to
• petted until I fall asleep
• praised, hugged, kissed softly on the forehead
• made afraid of you, and grabbing me by the face only to kiss me all over
• made to whimper and whine
• hurt affectionately
• mindfucked
• on your lap while you game or work
• naked on your lap while you game or work (clothed)
• talked dirty to while I’m in public
• asked questions that aren’t really questions

✨other:

• having my legs pried open because I’m shy
• big, veiny hands
• nice voice

Interested in trying:

fear play, knife play, ddlg (not sure about this, but I have recently discovered I like being made to say “daddy”)

Limits:

Scat, blood, permanent physical harm, degrading/namecalling based my weight, others we can talk about as we go.

If you’re interested, let’s quickly chat on Reddit to see if we mesh? I would eventually want to do a quick voice call as well.

xx