Introduction

I'm married and trans, seeking online-only kink-based play and friendship. If you’re looking for a romantic or emotional relationship, this isn’t the place. I’m here for creative, respectful dynamics with mature individuals.

About Me

Role, Skills, and Interests

I specialize in creating adaptable systems, whether in tech or creative projects. My approach is about finding hidden patterns and making systems flexible enough to evolve with changing conditions, whether in workflows or system architecture. I enjoy solving problems that require not just technical skills but also a strategic mindset—designing structures that grow and adjust, rather than breaking under pressure. This applies to everything from technical systems to creative endeavors like photography, where I'm particularly interested in how light can be sculpted to create different moods and emphasize form.

I’m also working on models to simulate tectonic plates, large ecosystems, and quantum physics—systems that can be applied to building and simulating entire worlds. These simulations go beyond simple models, allowing for complex interactions between natural forces and structures. The intersection of these fields lets me explore both the technical and creative aspects of systems, whether it’s through theoretical simulations or practical, creative problem-solving. I’m excited by any opportunity to dive into these kinds of projects with others who share a passion for exploring how complex systems interact.

Intelligence, Communication, and Submission in the Bimbo Flow

I don’t stress over saying the perfect thing or always making sense. I prefer playful, light conversations where I can be myself without overthinking. Communication for me is more about staying present and engaged rather than striving for perfection. I find humor in those moments where things don’t always click, and I’m confident enough to just go with the flow.

When it comes to submission, it’s about trust and mental connection, not emotional vulnerability. I’m looking for a Dom who can engage with me mentally, take charge, and understand my boundaries, all while keeping it fun and light. My submission isn’t about giving up control—it’s about choosing to follow the lead of someone who understands my needs and limits.

What I'm Looking For

Ideal Dom and Personal Qualities

I seek a Dom with a commanding presence who can balance control with playfulness, without needing to dominate every interaction. Someone who naturally exudes confidence and understands the nuance between control and trust, especially in an online dynamic. Curiosity, creativity, and clear communication are key, as well as someone who is independent, confident in their own space, and open to exploring power dynamics in a respectful way. I prefer someone who is direct and engaged, but doesn’t need constant reassurance or emotional entanglements. The dynamic should be fun, imaginative, and mentally stimulating, with mutual respect for each other’s limits and boundaries.

A strong sense of self and independence are qualities I’m drawn to—someone who knows what they want and respects what I want as well. I want a Dom who can challenge me mentally without overwhelming the dynamic. Playfulness and the ability to explore creative solutions in our interactions are a plus, but humor shouldn’t overshadow the depth of the connection we build.

Communication and Practical Support

I'm looking for someone who can communicate effectively without becoming overly sentimental or emotional. Clear, concise check-ins after scenes and during play are key to maintaining a trusting dynamic. I value someone who respects my independence and understands that we’re both here to explore dynamics in a thoughtful, structured way. Aftercare, in this sense, is more about ensuring the scene went well and discussing how we can improve in the future. I’m not looking for emotional caretaking or in-depth nurturing; it's about maintaining an open dialogue and keeping the connection productive and clear.

What I Want to Do Together

Creative Collaboration and Intellectual Pursuits

I love combining creative and technical pursuits, and I’m looking for someone who can bounce around with me intellectually. One example could be using my models to simulate tectonic plates, large ecosystems, and quantum physics to build and explore entire worlds. I want someone who can straddle the line between art and science, bringing new ideas and perspectives to the table as we tackle interesting and complex problems together. Whether we’re brainstorming the way landmasses shift over time, discussing the physics of a fictional universe, or figuring out how ecosystems evolve in response to environmental changes, the focus is on keeping the conversation dynamic. I’m not interested in rigid, perfect solutions—I want someone who enjoys the process of exploring and expanding ideas, where creativity and technical problem-solving blend.

Kink and Play

For me, kink is about the mental connection more than the physical. The psychological aspects of control, submission, and power dynamics are what I find most meaningful. I’m drawn to someone who understands that the mind is the primary playground, and who wants to explore these aspects deeply and thoughtfully. Trust and communication are essential for meaningful online play, and I want someone who enjoys the mental challenge of building a strong dynamic.

My Kinks (Unordered)

Power Dynamics and Control

• Misogyny
• Slavery
• Mind Control
• Dumbification
• Dronification
• Cuckolding/Cuckqueening
• Objectification and dehumanization
• Impact play and corporal punishment
• Forced feminization or masculinization
• Ownership and possession
• Protocol and ritualized behavior

Body Modification and Marking

• Body modification
• Amputation
• Tattoos
• Body writing
• Scarification and branding
• Piercings and jewelry
• Temporary or semi-permanent markings (e.g., henna, makeup)
• Body casting or molding
• Hair removal or modification

Humiliation and Extreme Play

• Humiliation
• Consensual non-consent (CNC)
• Lactation
• Orgasm Control
• Watersports
• Scat
• Snuff
• Fear play and psychological torment
• Degradation and verbal abuse
• Forced exhibitionism or voyeurism

Bondage and Role-Play

• Heavy Bondage
• Ponyplay
• Petplay
• Sensory deprivation and isolation
• Mummification or immobilization
• Predicament bondage
• Role-reversal or power exchange dynamics