Hello there!

Domme and you have subthing in common?

The boring bit: I'm 25, 5'11 and athletic. I live in North London UK and I'm studying for an MSc. I'm looking to connect with a Domme, preferably 23 or older and happy to establish a friendship or more outside of a dynamic. I can't accommodate.

I've been part of the kink community for a few years now and am in the process of exploring what I want from my relationships, both within the scene and beyond it. I'm not set on any specific expectations but I find myself leaning towards something long-term. A partner for Pedestal would be cool, I'm also interested in Riot and Imaginarium. 😆

Vanilla me: I'm confident, outgoing and playful, although I may take some time to warm up to new people. I'm determined, enjoy overcoming challenges and like to think of myself as headstrong. I take good care of myself and have been told I'm easy on the eyes. I don’t drink or smoke for health reasons but I still have fun and enjoy a good rave- especially DnB. 💃🏻

Outside of kink, I spend a lot of time at the gym (currently bulking), rock climbing, and inline skating. I also love cooking and I'm even more fond of cooking for people; I have been doing it since I was young alongside other creative hobbies. There's more to me but I'll leave some things for later discovery. Hopefully we share some interests. 🤗

Kinky me: When it comes to my kinks, I'm a people pleaser; I enjoy doing as I'm told and like to make the satisfaction of others my priority. I'd like to think I'm easygoing but here is a quick summary to give you an idea of what I am a fan of:

Body worship (from head to toe🙆🏻‍♂️), power exchange, psychological coercion and manipulation, denial, humiliation/ degradation, toys (I have a small collection😋) and task exchange. I'm a fan of nonsexual play also, especially while getting to know eachother.

I don't expect anyone to mirror all of my kinks, I'm more interested in compatibility of our personalities and chemistry, but I hope this gives you a general sense of where I'm at. Just like with my hobbies, there’s more to speak of but I’ll save the rest for potential conversations.

Closing: If you message me, I would appreciate it if you could close with a purple heart emoji and tell something that you're passionate about so I know you've taken the time to read my post. 💜

I'm all for thorough vetting and am happy to answer any questions you might have. If you're interested, I can share my FetLife. I don't mind engaging in soft play like light teasing or bullying but I'd prefer that you don't try to dom me until we're well acquainted; I'm happy to start online if that is preferred. Thanks for taking the time to read this! 😇

Edit: I'm shocked that I need to add this but, just to be clear, I'm not engaging in any form of intimate play unless you can verify your identity via a brief video call or some other means. Sending a random photo of yourself is not a form of identity verification. If this isn't something that you're willing to do, please don't waste our time.