Hey there, please read my post full before reaching out! I want to make sure that we are a good fit.

I'm in my mid-thirties and I live in California. Orange County to be specific... It's not too important to me whether or not you live nearby. I'm not spontaneous enough to meet up instantly, so I'd like for us to get to know each other first. Ideally we'll chat online, get to know each other first, then decide where to go from there.

Starting with some information about myself: I work as a lecturer in college. I teach psychology. I'm career driven and I have been married for 13 years. I have three kids. My sexual relationship with my husband has been rocky for the past few years. There's no spark in the bedroom at all. I won't go into too much detail on here, but happy to share more information in private. (:

I've always been used to being in control of my regular life... I work as a college teacher so I'm used to dealing with younger men. But deep down I've always been the submissive type. My sex life with my husband is extremely vanilla and I've just been craving more. It feels so liberating being able to relinquish control to a dom... I have limited experience but I feel like this is what I want and this is what I need.

A physical description of myself: I'm 5'1" and quite fit. About 110 pounds. I was a Pilates instructor all throughout my 20's... and was a competitive figure skater throughout my high school days. Nowadays I stay active at the gym and some work out classes. I'm half-Chinese and half-Dutch. Brown eyes and brown hair.

What I am searching for: It's important that we have great sexual chemistry. My previous interactions have always been with younger men. My requirements are someone fit/athletic (muscular, etc) and someone who knows what they want in the bedroom. It would be great if you're experienced. If you're a bull then that's even better. I look forward to submitting to you...

Please send me a chat request if you are interested (:. I'm more likely to respond if you send something to grab my attention such as a photo. If I don't reply, I'm afraid I'm not interested.