"As my slave, I would take care of you. You'd be my little princess. But I would also be strict and sadistic. I'd like to make you scream and cry. You would be my dress-up doll, my slut who will follow my orders willingly. I will humiliate you, take care of you, punish you when needed."

Don’t say I didn’t warn you...

First of all, let me introduce myself.

I'm an honest man. With a solid career and strong personal values. I know that good communication and consent are foundations for every relationship, so if we are on the same wavelength, read on.

I am a Dutch professional living in the Netherlands. I have extensive experience as a dominant, both online and in real life. My personal life will be gradually revealed, even though I am not going to tell you much at this time.

Monday through Friday, I work as a strategist in the tech sector. I recently switched careers to healthcare. Most of my day is spent leading and managing a talented and diverse team focused on solving real-world problems and providing healthcare opportunities for disadvantaged demographics. Knowing I make might make a difference for someone makes it all worth it.

Balance is important to me. Even though I am a highly ambitious person. I value my free time. At the end of the workday, I like hitting the gym or hiking with my beloved dog. After, I might call up some friends for an impromptu activity or adventure. I graduated from culinary school, so I enjoy cooking and love sharing my 'fancy' meals with people dear to me. Add a good bottle of wine, a lot of humor, banter, and a good conversation and I am satisfied.

Expectations:

I’m less interested in lists of kinks and more about specific feelings. I love, love, love to tease. Tie you up or hold you down, my breath hot in my ear as I whisper something degrading and delicious. Make you twitch at even the softest touch because as soon as you let your guard down, you'll regret it. Leave you breathless and whimpering, begging for more or less or I-don’t-even-know-what-anymore and have my way with you.

No matter how much experience you have, I prefer individuals with enthusiasm and a great attitude. If given the choice, I'd rather meet those who are eager to learn, willing to please, and serious about having a conversation. As for the rest, I'm looking forward to learning more about you.

You and I are adults who have obligations, work, and social life to keep up with. I can fully understand life getting in the way, and I expect you to be as understanding. On the other hand, I do expect that you are striving to meet the goals I set for you. The best way to describe this is by making you a 'powerful and fulfilled' submissive. You can do this by exploring all the fantasies and kinks you have. However, you must have a trusted Dominant to help you make it happen.

Your body shape doesn't matter to me. I want you to be as comfortable as possible, but if you aren't, I hope we can help you gain confidence. Because even my physical desires of lust have had all types of women on both sides of the standards of beauty, I've always been shocked at the standards of beauty in society. The appearance of a person is such a small part of who they are, and even a smaller part of the enjoyment they can achieve. It would be my pleasure to make you feel sexy.

In order for this experience to be as enjoyable for both of us, we must trust each other and be honest about our expectations and be able to communicate them without judgment. My philosophy has always been to have a good conversation before starting any session. Tell me how you feel, what you think, what emotions it evokes, and how much you enjoy it.

I've always been adventurous in my personal life, and this translates into my sex life as well. After discovering BDSM I've been hooked ever since. The journey is never-ending. Bondage, sadism, humiliation (verbal), spanking, sensory deprivation, spitting, rules, making you beg, daddy play, objectification, and a lot more fun things we can do together.

Can you handle a challenging and fun experience? Looking for someone who you can trust and help you turn your fantasies into reality?

Other hobbies:

Reading, Mostly non-fiction about social psychology, communication, and philosophy. Running, A meditative activity that makes me happy. Skydiving when I have the opportunity. Other than that, my work is my biggest hobby and passion. I love to work hard and am ridiculously ambitious. The more I can contribute the better.

PS: Please feel free to contact me if you just want to chat about whatever or bounce something off of me (non-kink related too!) Meeting new people is one of my favorite things to do.