Hello and thanks for reading. This will be a long post but hopefully easy to read. I am making this post to find my next sub. Will probably keep reposting and up in profile till I find the one. I have been searching for a while and have yet to find the sub with the same interests that also wants to build a dynamic no matter the difficulty. Below is what I am looking for.
Dynamic preferences - Long term dynamic online/in-person - Dynamic wise: pet play and/or TPE - Proper communication (no ghosting) - open to pic/vid sharing and voice calls. Doesn't need to be immediate and will take effect when comfortable/compatible - in/out of bedroom - Sexual and non-sexual - someone who I can absolutely call mine and them call me theirs
Sub preferences - Preferably cis woman but open to trans women if there's a connection. - preferably local to Nevada or within a neighboring state. I am also okay with online but should be open to travel possibilities. - age range between 25-40 - Kinky in general and open to exploring most kinks. Experience not required. - Someone with moderate to high sex drive - No real preference to physical appearance but do require that there be some mutual physical attraction. Preferably send a pic or have one in profile to verify. I will send one in return. - Good communication skills all around even when it's rough. - Someone that is in a good place emotionally/financially and has time and effort to take on a full dynamic and relationship. - non-monogamous or open to Dom being polyamorous. - nerdy/gamer preferred. - interested in a service/pleasure sub who wants to devote themselves (never experienced)
For visibility, if you are interested in reaching out please send me your age, sex, location, and a bit about yourself or what you are looking for.
About me: I am a Dom all the way and not interested in switching. I have been a dom for 7 years and have had a few subs for both pet play/TPE. I am open to learning new dynamics but will have little to no experience if you are looking for something different. Highly kinky and very much a soft dom. Potentially service Dom as I enjoy spoiling my subs but someone who is very strict when it comes to my sub holding their end of tasks/commands. Minor sadist side depending on the circumstances. Not generally involved in the scene such as going to events or parties but open to it. Happy to discuss this more.
Vanilla me: I am a 32 white male, currently living in Las Vegas, 5'9" average body build definitely want to improve it or go full dad bod (pics in profile). I am a big nerd. I love my video games. If you are curious I play really everything cause there's something to be loved. But I mostly play like WoW, Monster hunter, Diablo, Pokemon, Civ6, and total Warhammer 3, baulders gate 3, persona. I work in IT it's the field that I am passionate about and work hard for. I was lucky enough to get a remote position so I do have lots of time to give. Personality wise, I am a homebody I find it relaxing and fun but I do enjoy going out. I'm an engineer at heart so breaking things and fixing them and improving them is a lot of fun. I think I'm funny but pretty dry humor that'll chuckle if someone shouts penis 🤷🏻♂️ what you gonna do. I am poly and currently do not have another sub/partner.
I am the type of person that would fight for a relationship and put the effort in. Most likely will try hard to make you laugh so hard your drink comes out your nose. Endlessly spoil you with affection and attention and random tidbits of stuff I find interesting throughout the day.
Kinks: Anal, humiliation, TPE(24/7), bondage, orgasm control, pet play, ropes, wax play, free use, breeding, preggo. I am more of a try something first and then determine my limits so not much off the table. All of my kinks are non-mandatory I just listed what I enjoy and could remember
I very much an open book person so feel free to ask me any questions and I will do my best to answer. If this seems like something you would want please reach out over chat preferably.
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