Me

I'm in San Francisco proper, looking for a serious, long-term, IN-PERSON DDlg dynamic with a Dom that is experienced in Praise&Degradation or a play partner to attend events with. I'm wanting to have a long term dynamic so I can fully slip into my sub side and also eventually, with lots of built trust, explore and engage in more intense edgeplay. I am unable to host and do not have a car, so please be located in SF proper or be willing to make accommodations for us.

I'm currently out of town for another week, but I'm posting this now because I would like to message back and forth while i'm away to see how well we connect in terms of communication styles/frequency and if we want to/are able to keep in contact. That way, when I get home, we can hit the ground running with a nice date with someone I know is serious about a possible future dynamic.

Please do not refer to yourself as my dom in your first message, as that is something I will decide. There have been attempts to intimidate or strong arm me into becoming an individual's sub and I've never been turned off faster. Be a human, make me laugh, give me cute banter. If you're a real one, things will happen.

♡♡my ideal aesthetic type (none of these are dealbreakers):

•30-39 years old •White male •Dark, short to medium-length hair •Brown eyes •Strong, dark brows •Lean muscle/fit/toned •6' •Deep voice •minimal body hair

《I will inevitably need a face pic since I plan to do in-person meet ups. If we hit it off, we can do face pic swaps. I understand the need for discretion》

If any of this applies to you and sounds good, let me know and let's chat!

I've been in the lifestyle about 7 years, and am still discovering new things about myself!

☆☆☆ Some of my interests: breeding, lactation, degradation, man hands(more specifically with multiple rings and multiple bracelets, prominent veins, and big knuckles), deep voices (i frequent the gonewildaudio sub), choking, gagging, slapping, spitting, cnc, bwc (preferably uncut), hair pulling, humiliation (stuff like talking to me like i'm an animal [i like being called a heifer sometimes]), cum draining, overstimulation, skills fetish (Jim Browning is my wet dream😍😍), and fisting.

♡send a voice clip and some information about yourself and I'll give your message priority!♡