Hi, thanks for reading, and good luck getting through the wall of text; I do try to keep it short I promise!

I'm a natural submissive (slave) at heart and love being able to lean into my feminine energy with someone. I'm not mentioning kinks at all in here because when I feel close to someone, my kinks mirror theirs. In another life I would've made a pretty good tradwife but I guess being a poly, single mum doesn't exactly fit the image 😅

I'm someone who loves being in nature, enjoys listening to people one on one and getting to know people on a deeper level. I work in the care sector and own my own home, slowly turning it into my own colourful space. And more than I'd like to admit, I lose chunks of time to a good book or puzzle.

I'm plus size/bbw/whatever you want to call it (size 22), but I'm also working on it and seeing progress. I've been doing yoga and running consistently for a few months and am loving it (once I start at least 😅). I've put in a lot of work to get my shit together, but there's still some things I'm working on. I'm not sure we're ever really "done", are we?

What I'm looking for:

This is the tricky bit.

I have an Owner (although we are not primary partners) so I'm not looking for anything super controlling.

I guess I'm looking for something a little softer. A bit more like a normal relationship but still with a good amount of power exchange. Someone to care for, and to get to know outside kink as well. Someone to please, and someone I can submit to.

I'm looking for: A man between 30-48 In Australia or New Zealand. (I'm in Vic, but open to online with the right person in a similar timezone) Has space and time for another person. Good communication skills Not just after sex

And please, don't be cheating on a partner.

If you think we might click, shoot me a message with your age and where you're from. Generally people who write one or two sentences as an intro message aren't my type of people, if you couldn't tell by this post. And if you made it this far, thank you and good luck 🥰💜