About me *vanilla*: 21, blonde, college student. I'm extremely intellectually curious — always reading a nonfiction book — as well as professionally ambitious. Interests include history, sports, and reading books about parts of the world I've never been to. I pride myself on being fit and disciplined, looking for someone who holds themself to these same standards. I'm in Philly, but likely moving to DC this year.

About me *kink*: Submissive since before I knew what that word meant. Looking for a kind of sweet sadism -- condescension and pain, with a healthy dose of praise. I am a masochist, and need to be with a sadist. Someone who delights in my pain, both physical and psychological. I fantasize about any all kinds of pain and punishment, from spanking to things much more intense and convoluted. I also crave being teased or denied, and need my partner to enjoy teasing me often.

I love to feel like the object of someone's desires and on show for them. I don't have tons of experience in a dynamic (tried certain physical aspects of BDSM with a few partners), but have lots of fantasies of what I want to do. I'm not looking for anything 24/7, or slave-oriented. I'm very assertive and headstrong in my regular life, and not looking to change that.

Who I'm looking for: I need someone who would be considered attractive in real life, not just better than the average on an anonymous Reddit forum. Being attractive aesthetically to me includes a fit, muscular body type. This is a dealbreaker. As my title alludes to, I hold myself to a very high standard and extend that to my partners. I don't mean to come off as rude or snobby, but felt the need to include this to make it known what I am looking for. I will, of course, provide a photo of myself early to make sure we both are satisfied. Long story short, I am attracted to ambitious, intellectual, and outgoing men. Age-wise, looking for 21-35ish.

If this sounds like you and what you’re looking for, please shoot me a message introducing yourself, and include a (SFW) photo.