There is a tendency in life for men to objectify women.

We’re going to lean into that.

Society has left you wayward. A girl, now a woman, educated towards a set of values and preferences which only partially suit you. Out and about, it all makes sense - when the man behind you in the coffee shop doesn’t calling you sweetheart, or your boss doesn’t grab your ass. But privately it is somewhat lacking. There is a deep, fundamental aspect to your personality which has been left out of the equation, and slowly over time the quiet hum grows noisier and you realise that you are in fact deprived of something you can’t live without.

So you watch porn, but it’s not enough. You read erotica, look for sex more openly, but it’s not enough. You discover kink and it captures you, sets your mind on fire, and you start to look around on the internet for likeminded communities. Just out of curiosity at first, but over time you begin to wonder if you couldn’t live such a fantasy yourself.

And here we are.

I am a passionate, psychological driven, emotional intelligent pervert. Outside of kink, my life is full. I'm 6 foot, not too shabby to behold, with a silver tongue. I have a rich social life, I lift weights, I try new things, cook well, read widely, enjoy my job, and in general wake up a satisfied young lad. But kink wise, I am not satisfied. How can I be?

I don't have a toy to play with.

Control & perversion are the key aspects of kink for me. The word corruption is somewhat fitting. Out in public you will be taught to be the perfect little girl: polite, demure, kind, feminine, curious and so on. Privately you will be taught to be an enthusiastic, willing sex object that is committed to serving and in turn being used by a Daddy that knows your place.

Behind closed doors, I want us both to be able to relax into this deeper dynamic. Nothing we practice or play with will be things you don’t want to do. They will all be a result of open, detailed discussions about what we both want and what makes you feel happy, feel safe, and of course what makes your panties wet. To my mind, this fantasy involves: free use, the training of your throat and butthole for Daddy to pleasantly use as he wishes, what you wear in and out of the house, the way you groom yourself, the way you talk to me in dynamic, control over your pussy and orgasms, sexualised household duties, and more. TPE is the end goal, but I have found from experiences that it needs to be paused, quite often, or the dynamic swallows the relationship. I also have kinks for drool, pain-play, light age play, and a million other things. No doubt more we can discover together.

Once the dynamic is established, and we have rules in place to clearly describe your behaviour and our shared sex life, your job becomes very simple. Obey. Slip up, and you will be punished until you apologise, more and more severely till you learn. Succeed and you will be rewarded with praise, your favourite treats, and if you’re a very good girl, orgasms.

I’m looking to share a full and vivid life with someone. I love kink. I’d love its energy to infuse all the little nooks and crannies of our relationship. But I’m looking for something real and intimate so please expect that type of person. I’m looking for more than a fucktoy <3.

Looking for something in London, IRL. If this post is still up, I’m still looking. Please don’t hesitate to reach out.