About me: I’m 27 years old, 1.63m, brown-skinned, beautiful and curvy. I love doing Pilates and yoga in the mornings. Going for walks in nature and horse riding are some of the ways I like to destress. Born and raised in South Africa and well traveled. I’ve mostly been to countries in Europe and Africa.

I love reading any and all types of literature, but my absolute favourite genre is progression fantasy and the sub genre of LitRPGs. Recently started learning 3D animation and game development so I’d love to share all my nerdy interests with my special person. I’m a homebody but when I do go out you’ll find me at music concerts, art galleries and bookstores. I’m a foodie so I’ve also made trying new restaurants a hobby.

About you: Ages 26-50. The most important qualities that I need in a partner are emotional intelligence, integrity and honesty. I’m a very generous person so it only makes sense that my partner should be the same.

Physicality - would prefer it if you’re 6’ , tattoos are my kryptonite. I love a man who takes care of himself and takes pride in his appearance. What’s that boomer saying? Health is wealth? Yeah, I’d like someone who’s knees won’t start giving out after he’s spent a couple minutes kneeling for me. Bonus points if you’re big enough to carry me around like a burrito wrapped in lace and latex. I love the juxtaposition of me being small and cute with a big, handsome, masculine man whereas our dynamic, unbeknownst to everyone else, is the complete opposite.

What I’m looking for: The ultimate goal and intention is to have a serious relationship and commitment as the foundation upon which the Domme/sub dynamic will be built upon. I do love a slow burn so I want to get to know you first and get comfortable being my true self with you. I am not looking for someone who just wants the sexual side of BDSM. I’m not a kink dispenser or an NPC with a mini-menu. I’m definitely not interested in a man who needs to be deprogrammed. Men who truly know how to worship a woman don't need much, if any encouragement. Submission should be as natural as breathing to you.

I’m open to any location and I have experience with long-term international LDRs. Preferably you should be in either the EU or East Asia but not a dealbreaker if you aren’t.

Communication: Consistency is more important to me than anything else, of course I don’t expect perfection but you need to be a man who honours his word and has integrity. You should be intentional in your interactions with me so it’s important that you’re able to dedicate time to talking everyday and are good with open and honest communication. I love having deep, intellectually stimulating conversations and I enjoy long phone calls so you should be comfortable with calling early on.

I have a lot of experience with bdsm and mid level experience with FLR but I’m going into this with an open mind and a willingness to learn and grow. I know exactly what I need and want and expect the same from you.

If you made it all the way here well done! You’re officially an honorary member of the fan club. Here’s a virtual hug for all your effort 🤗 Start your message with Alaia, so I know you read the entire post. Make it interesting! Tell me about your life, your interests and don’t be shy. Xx.