Kink is fun and satisfies certain needs, but I don’t believe that a relationship based on the kink elements alone is sustainable.  Sometimes love can grow from it, but I feel that a relationship based on mutual respect and admiration for each other as human beings is a better foundation.

About me:  I’m 57, divorced and have no family in my life.  I live alone with my little puppy, named Poot.  I’m 6’1”, around 235 pounds, with a shaved head and a goatee.  I have 6 tattoos.  I tend to be a homebody when I don’t have a partner to do fun things with.  I enjoy research, reading about current events and watching a wide variety of things on t.v.  I’m a Christian but that relationship is personal, and I don’t push my beliefs on others.
I’m very experienced in the BDSM lifestyle, having been a Dominant is a variety of different dynamics.  What time has taught me is that I can be content in a dynamic as long as it contains certain “must-have” elements.  That list isn’t very long but the basis of it boils down to leadership.  I have a LOT of interests but as mentioned, only a few must-haves.  I believe negotiations between the Dom and sub beforehand are critical and a mutually satisfactory dynamic has the best chance of surviving and flourishing.
I’m not in a huge rush, but I have no interest in an online dynamic.  Let’s get to know each other.

About You:  Submissive, sweet-natured, not prone to drama.  A good cook and able to share in good communication.  Height/weight proportionate.  Age doesn’t matter.  I want my girl to be able to be flexible on where you can live.  I have the ability to provide a life where you can be a SAHW, or you can continue to work.  Your choice.

Be willing and able to share SFW photos and communicate on an outside platform.  Reddit is just too buggy, and I never hear a message come in.

JD