Long post ahead, you’ve been warned 🤓

About vanilla me: I'm a 46 year old painter, youth librarian and a geek. Most of my art features ancient artifacts from around the world juxtaposed with graffiti. I love learning new things. I’m very into art, reading, music, movies (especially Star Wars, Marvel, Disney, Dune). More into fun dates (going to parks, festivals, museums… road trips to explore new places) or cuddles/movies at home or bonfires and music vs a loud bar or party. I'm not a sportsball person at all

I’m ideally hoping to find something longterm, but it starts with getting to know eachother. I like to share parts of our day via text/vm, snuggle, color, watch movies, go on adventures - in and out of the bedroom.

I love deep conversations (sapiosexual for sure) and enjoy sending text (and/or)voice messages on/off through the day. Also enjoy movie “watch parties” and other ways to spend (virtual) time together if we can’t be in the same place.

I am hoping for an in-person relationship at some point, so being within some hours of central Ohio helps a lot. I’m not opposed to some distance as long as there is hope/intention to meet in person in the not too distant future.

I have a decade-ish of experience in bdsm/ddIg. Happy to talk about kinks whenever you’re comfortable. Im looking for a relationship where kink is part of the awesome, not the main thing.

I've been a teacher for the better part of 25 years, and that definitely has helped shape who I am as a dom. I want to help my sub be their best, most authentic self. I will only make rules for that reason, never just to have rules. I’m not looking for TPE. I am a natural caregiver, nurturer and love to cuddle. I will be your biggest cheerleader, but I also have no problem calling you out on your shit. I can handle some brattiness. A sweet princess is also pretty awesome.

Exactly what I'm into as far as kinks go depends a lot on what the other partner enjoys.I really enjoy exploring with the right person/chemistry. I tend towards the softer/daddy Dom side of things, but I also have a primal side that comes out with the right connection. When I know my partner enjoys the pain, I enjoy giving it.

Communication, consistency and mental health awareness are musts.

There are photos of me in my profile because physical attraction matters. I’d like to see one of you sooner than later.

📚 Sorry/not sorry about the length of the post. I think it’s good for everyone to have an idea of what they might be getting into.

⭐️ Please tell me a little about you, why we might be a good match, when you message.