Hello, I'm a 25 almost 26 years old female in Brazil interested in doing some online domming. I'm very inexperienced and very new to bdsm. The only real life bdsm I have experienced is practicing shibari self tie and a shibari workshop where I learned how to self tie. I currently don't have an opportunity to do much irl due to life circumstances, so I thought I'd like to do some online scenes as a way to explore and learn. Since I'm very inexperienced I want whoever answers to not have crazy expectations and to understand I might struggle at first.
The part I like the best of bdsm is the D/S dynamic. Being on top, being in control, having someone obey my orders is what I like the best. I also really like when I can hear the sub being very vocal and aren't afraid to moan or scream. I'm also really into praising my sub when they do good and spoiling them a bit.
Due to my life circumstances I'd like this to be an online only anonymous relationship. I also can't have it be a full time relationship, I'm looking for something that we could agree to do once a week or once two weeks and so on. I'm willing to videochat but with my head cut off the frame or covered with a mask, but I'd rather just audiochat. I won't send pictures in which my face appears, and I don't expect the sub to show me their face either. I won't ask of my sub anything I wouldn't be comfortable doing myself when it comes to exposing one's identity and such.
I'd like us to schedule a time to play too since I often do overtime at work and sometimes get events on weekends and I like to shcedule things properly. Even though actual playing would be done under a schedule to make things easier I'm ok with just chatting through the week outside of the dynamic as friends. This is not a problem for me. I just can't be in dom mode most of the time, we have to set date and time so I can prepare.
Stuff I'm interested in (including stuff we can't really do online but I thought it would be good to get to know me better):
- Orgasm control/denial
- Edging
- JOI
- Giving orders
- Degradation
- Praising
- Forced orgasms
- Overstimulation
- Pegging
Hard limits:
- Scat
- Watersports
Description:
I'm very short (4'11/1,5m), slightly tanned, with dark eyes and dark brown very short hair. My sister calls it k-pop idol man hair and she's right, it is the same haircut as I've seen some male kpop idols have. I present kinda masculine most of the time, you can say I give off butch lesbian vibes. I don't work out much so don't expect me to be muscular or anything but I'm still somewhat skinny (small waist but thickish thighs basically). Despite being tiny, I have deep voice and I more than once have heard that "It doesn't look like your voice is coming out of your mouth". I can pitch my voice very high, but my natural voice is on the deeper end and personally I think it's very pretty. I'm very proud of my voice.
Thanks for reading and DM me if you're interested. I might take a little while to answer though since I'm kind of a busy person as I previously mentioned, so don't worry too much if I take a long time to get back to you.
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