Hello! I'm a 58-year-old submissive female looking for a long-term dominant male. I realize I may be older than most subs but that means I have lots of experience. I know what I am looking for and donβt play games.
Someone who is 40 , single (no one thinks they are in a relationship with you), and lives within a 3-hour radius of me, I live between Macon and Atlanta. I am not interested in a strictly long-distance relationship. You also must have a job.
I want to take time to establish our dynamic and set up rules. A good dynamic has lots of mutual trust and can only happen through proper communication and reaching a level of comfort.
I like to be controlled but not in an abusive way ( no sleep, food, or bathroom control). I want my limits respected, but at the same time, push me beyond my limits (both sexually and platonically). While I wouldn't mind something purely sexual, I would prefer a dynamic where you help me grow and be better in general, and I have the same effect on you.
Given the long-term nature of the dynamic, I expect exclusivity, and you can expect the same from me. I need someone to understand my limits and general life schedule. I want to be treated like a filthy slut and get the princess treatment as well. I want someone who can be very strict but understanding when needed. I want a disciplined person to help me be disciplined (again not in an abusive way) as well.
I work in a hospital laboratory and have a 2 dogs . I knit, crochet, do cross stitch, read and play video games. I started kayaking last year but have not had much time to go out. My plan is to do more next year. I also want to start hiking and visit all the waterfalls in Georgia. I like horror, thriller, true crime, science fiction movies and books. I do throw in a romance novel every so often. I listen to just about any genre of music and like discovering new music. I play mostly play role playing and shooting video games. I have a switch, PS5 and steam deck. My favorite series are Final Fantasy , Zelda and Mario.
My top kinks are cnc, getting praise (I love being called a good girl), control, orgasm control, and denial. There are many more, but knowing these should give you an idea of what I would like a dynamic to be. There is more I would like to try. My limits are scat, blood, pee, knives, and torture.
Your kinks don't have to match mine completely; there's more to this than just kinks.
Feel free to drop a text if any of this interested you!
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