I think the dynamic I'm looking for is a bit different from most posts on here, but perhaps it will appeal to you. I'm dominant-leaning, looking to get to know somebody submissive-leaning through fun and casual conversations. We'll talk about about interests, life, etc, but with the twist of mixing in elements of power and submission. I mentioned non-sexual in the post title because I'd like to steer the focus of our interactions more toward the mental elements of the dom/sub dynamic (power disparity, submissive, obedience) than the overtly sexual. There's something fun and kinky about sharing normal vanilla conversations, while knowing that at any moment you could be ordered to get down on your knees and wait for further instructions.
Along those lines, the types of tasks I intend to give you won't be your standard sexually-oriented tasks (edging, spanking, and the like), but will also more focus on the mental aspects of submission. I want to make you feel subservient, humiliate and embarrass you, make you blush, get you in the submissive mindset where you're willing to obey just because, and emphasize the power dynamics of this dynamic. More specifically, some elements I'd like to incorporate are humiliation (think more along the lines of embarrassing yourself than sexualizing yourself), rules/restrictions, tedious/boring/pointless tasks, mild pain/discomfort, pet play (for the humiliation aspect), begging, and other things along those lines.
I'll also reiterate that while these are things I'd like to incorporate, I envision the majority of our interactions would be focused around conversation.
ABOUT ME: I'm 37m from the US (EST), 5'10, white, average body type. In the summer, I've been spending a lot of time gardening, but I have a variety of hobbies that I'd be happy to share as we get to know each other. I'm happy to share a picture to verify.
ABOUT YOU: You can be any age, race, or body type (18 of course), as long as some of these mental dynamics appeal to you, and you're a decent communicator. You don't have to have much/any experience, as long as you are eager to explore this type of dynamic.
Again, I know this is a little different, but if you think you might be interested, send me a message with a little about yourself and why this appeals to you, and we can go from there. Bonus points if you include a specific scenario/task you'd enjoy being made to do, to help give me an idea of your interested.
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