In my personal life I’m a feminist and a liberal, but in my kink/dating life I love the fantasy of owning and controlling a sexy little pet in a kink dynamic which plays with traditional gender roles. I want a woman who chooses to be submissive and provided for - not because she has to, but because it’s hot.

Im looking for a kink dynamic with traditional gender roles. I don’t want an equal, I want a sexy little pet I can show off and control. I want a soft, affectionate little girl who depends on me and who I can provide for and protect. I want an affectionate, obedient girlfriend who will wait for me at home and keep the place clean and put warm food on the table. You wouldn’t need to worry about anything except for the home. Bonus points for needy adorable little neurodivergent girls who crave boundaries to keep you in line.

Kink wise, I can be a hard and a soft dom depending on the day. I’m definitely a sadist and would keep you on your toes with punishments. I like playing with chastity and overstimulation, keeping you horny and desperate and then forcing you to orgasm until you’re begging me to stop. I like degradation and objectification and would get off on reminding you of your natural submissiveness, neediness and role as my little sex toy. Role play and exhibitionism are also very hot.

Outside of kink I also want a life partner. Someone to spend long Sundays cuddling with and to take home for the holidays.

About you:

Physically, I’m looking for someone traditionally feminine and smaller than me that I can control. I want the sort of high-femme who wears cute little dresses and giggles when she flirts. You should be under the age of 25, cisgender and ideally shorter than 5’4”. Bonus points for needy, adorable little neurodivergent girls who crave boundaries and a solid protector to rely on.

Ideally, I’m looking for a girl based in Europe so you would be close to my home-base in Germany.

Short term long-distance is ok. I don’t send or exchange nudes so I wouldn’t expect that from you but I would want to move to clothed video-calling after some short amount of time. If it worked between us, I would be open to visiting where you live to see if we click in person. Long-term I would be looking for a girl who is open to traveling to visit each other or relocating.