Hiiiii,

I'm an switch Leaning sub and international student in hamburg, I have truly no experience of softdom or femdom and I'm newly into S&M.

I want be praised for the right doings and slapped or punished for my wrong doings.

I have a cat and golden retriever energy, Cat bcuz I am very territorial about what's mine and golden retriever bcuz I won't stay away

I am a short king with the height of 172cm. And did a dirty bulk during bulking phase in gym and then had an injury but going to start the cutting phase this winter.

Describing myself is tough :-

● I have Medium sized black hair, dark brown eyes and stubble beard.

● I am shy but I'll act as if there isn't any thing like being shy.

● anything else you wanna know just hit the dm.

Reasons why I like or maybe love femdom

● Femdom gives a relief from the societal responsibility and the pressure placed on men

● Power exchange dynamics- when i think about the power exchange it makes me feel vulnerable creating intense emotional experience creating a sense of liberation (iykyk)

● The idea of being at the mercy of strong, dominant woman an element of risk, which hightens excitement and who doesn't love being cared and praised.

● In femdom, the dominant woman often takes on a role that combines both authority and care. For me, this dynamic mirrors a nurturing relationship where I feel protected and cared for. While the dominant woman may be in control, there is often a strong element of trust, and this allows the submissive partner (me) to feel safe. Some men find comfort in being "looked after" in this way, experiencing a sense of emotional release that comes from surrendering to someone who has their well-being in mind is what I am into. (Basically love me👉👈)

● Femdom can introduce men to new types of erotic play that I might not experience in a more traditional relationship. The exploration of different fetishes, power dynamics, and even BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism) can be deeply exciting. For some men, these experiences tap into fantasies that allow for creative and diverse forms of sexual expression heightening the overall pleasure.

● Traditional gender roles often cast men as the dominant partner and women as the submissive. I feel constrained by these expectations and so seek experiences that allow me to escape from societal norms. Femdom offers a space where these roles can be reversed, and I can explore different aspects of their personalities that I may not be able to express in everyday life. The ability to explore different dynamics without judgment is liberating for me and can lead to personal growth and self-discovery

● The power dynamics in femdom help to build deeper emotional bonds with their partner. Femdom often requires high levels of trust, communication, and vulnerability. Men who engage in femdom may feel more connected to their partner because they've shared intimate, personal moments that require openness and emotional transparency. These moments of vulnerability can enhance intimacy and create a stronger, more trusting relationship which I seek.