I have been in the lifestyle for around 11 years, but interested in it for much longer. I have experience with different D/s dynamics from the very gentle DDom to the fairly dark and sadistic, but my favorite place to be is certainly on the gentler side of things while occasionally delving into harsher themes where we have discussed at length previously. I love chatting with someone as a nonchalantly touch and pet them, playing with their hair and before they can realize they are having problems putting sentences together as they get lost in my attention. I enjoy when my partners excel so expect some training in regards to bettering yourself. I will always encourage you to chase your passion because it will make us both happier.

I am not a switch or have any tendencies toward submission. I've tried in the past to experiment and it led to an admittedly fun night and replacing 2 pairs of handcuffs out of my own pocket, but I do have a particular passion and interest for being the person that otherwise incredibly domineering and successful women enjoy taking a break with. Brats, domme leaning switches, and subs who like to try to fight are all very welcome. That being said I will always have a soft spot in my heart for sweet girls who just want cuddles or don't have it in them to do anything but try to please, so cute.

I have a laundry lists of kinks all of which center around the idea of power exchange. Some of my favorites include CNC, freeuse, manipulation, and hypnosis, but there have been very few things I have tried that explore the D/s power exchange that I have not enjoyed. I love seeing the impact I have on my partner, and seeing them shift for me over time.

About me: 33, cis/amab, 6'1'', 260, blonde hair, green eyes. Big enough to make you feel small, and strong enough for you to enjoy losing as you put up some resistance.

About you: Excited about the prospect as you read this post, cis/afab, looking for something long term and meaningful, intelligent, and open to exploration.

Limits: Anything illegal, non-consent, drugs, needles, blood, scat

I'm in the NorCal area and would like to not be online for an extended period. I'm up to drive basically anywhere on the west coast, I can at least check out the National Parks nearby. After we feel comfortable, and exchange verification photos or do a phone call let me buy you a coffee someplace public, safe, and beautiful so see where this might go. I understand that takes some time, but I want that to be where we are both working. Open to online for an exceptional match, but would want to be actively working toward seeing each other at some point in the future.

I am excited to learn more about you. Tell me a little about yourself, your experience, or something you are passionate about. Include your favorite piece of fiction at the start of your message.