Hi everyone! My name’s Jarod, I’m a 27y Daddy that lives in the Midwest. A bit about me and what I’m looking for:

I currently work in a children’s hospital and I’m in college for flight nursing (: I work nights so I’ve been pretty busy but I feel I’m able to manage a relationship pretty well given my schedule. I’m a bit taller at 6’4, strawberry blonde hair and some facial hair, and I’m a HUGE adrenaline junkie. I love mountain and rock climbing, biking, skydiving, all sorts of adventurous things, but with my more ambiverted personality, I also enjoy staying at home and baking snacks, writing music (I play 3 instruments and sing), cooking, and writing stories!

Some possible dealbreakers for you would be that I’m liberal, Pagan, (my family is Celtic and Native American so we’re not Christian and are pretty deep with our cultural beliefs), a little bit heavier at 250lbs but I’ve dropped almost 50 of that in the last 7 months, and am on the way to drop the last 50 here by the time I graduate! I’m also a soft dom, and not really much of a brat tamer. So if you like/need rougher enforcement and punishment, or you have brat tendencies, I wouldn’t really do well with that and I might not be the fit for you!

About my dom/daddy side, I’ve been in this lifestyle for roughly 8 years. I’ve had a couple irl relationships and a decent amount of experience, but I’m always willing and excited to learn more about this lifestyle and my partner’s needs/wants specifically (: Like I said above, I’m a softer dom. I love having a little because it’s just as cathartic for me as well, giving me a way to destress and focus on my tiny bean. I have always had a knack for taking care of others, and I really enjoy being able to do the small things like tie your shoes, pick outfits, have tea parties, things like that. I also love that I have a role in helping my partner explore her little side and be a soft, encouraging, caring means of support for her to just let go of all the scary adult things and feel safe and protected. It’s a way of healing for a lot of littles and I love being a part of that, having someone to take care of, and showing them that it’s okay to be themselves.

The biggest things in a relationship for me are that the energy is reciprocated between both people, we both realize that we’re adults at the core and have to have normal, healthy foundations for a relationship, that we communicate well, and that we validate and hear the feelings of each other and respect what each other has to say. It’s so surprising how many people on both sides of this dynamic don’t understand the emotional needs of their partner and what is expected in a relationship, so hopefully I can find someone who is emotionally mature and intelligent!

Because of this, I’m not really looking for anyone under like 22-23. I know that people that are younger can be emotionally mature, it’s just a personal preference! I’d also not like anyone over 30-31 (: All I ask is that if you’re far away, be willing to go 50/50 on visits with me when we get comfortable with it, but being within a days drive (or the same state) is best!

Kink wise, I’m into quite a bit. From shibari and watersports, to denial, abdl, somno, breath play, all sorts of things. I have about 5 of my 8 years as irl experience with bdsm, so I’m not the most inexperienced but I love to learn and I’m open minded, so please feel free to share in private once we both feel comfortable with it and the vibes are right!

Please tell me a bit about yourself in your intro, your passions, future goals, things like that! I’m not great with writing these so if you have any questions please don’t be shy, I’ll gladly answer! I expect to verify and be verified so we know we’re not catfishing each other, so please be ready to exchange sfw pictures at some point! I hope to hear from you!