Hello! Just to get some things out of the way, I’m looking for something long term and strictly online relationships are a no no for me. I say that because I’m not really into sexting and sending nudes straight off the back.

I feel a little silly treating a subreddit like some kind of dating site, but I’d prefer something specifically made for kink instead of Tinder or something.

A little bit about me! I’m 19 and nonbinary (AFAB) and I don’t really have a preference for any kind of pronouns, though I do prefer feminine words to describe myself. I’m currently in college for marine biology so of course I’m a certified scuba diver. Just to give a heads up, I have HORRIBLE anxiety to the point of having a service dog. I’m also on the more alternative side (Piercings, dyed hair, and tattoos) and I really like movies, books, and gaming. I currently swim and I’m trying to get back into dancing.

I prefer people taller than me as I like to feel small (I’m 5’10, unfortunately for me) and people who can toss me around a little lol. My age preference is 21-30 (:

And now the good stuff. Another heads up, though: I have done absolutely nothing. Like, NOTHING. I just know what I’m into.

I really like being controlled inside and outside the bedroom. When I say outside, I mean things like rules and routines. I’d even go as far as to say I’d be a-okay with downloading a tracking app if things get serious lol.

I’m very much into the care aspect of relationships. Simple things like aftercare, spending time together, and cuddles are really important to me.

I feel like I’m going from zero to 100, but I’m really interested in predator/prey, marking, manhandling, and I’m interested in trying out some pain. CNC definitely interests me. I know I like being tied up and sensory deprivation. I honestly feel like I’m forgetting a lot but who knows.

Feel free to ask about anything, even things I didn’t list! Chances are I’m probably into it and just forgot about it, whoops.

My hard absolute no’s are scat and ddlg.

PLEASE don’t start with something sexual right away. I like to get to know people before talking about anything like that (: