Getting it out of the way...yes, married, and happy to explain the dynamics and reasoning why I'm here privately if you're interested.
I'm looking for a relationship purely online that stretches into and improves our dailies. I'm not a cold person by nature, so connection is key, and I'm willing to spend the time needed to establish that. I've spoken to a few people in the last several weeks, and we either weren't the best fit or they just weren't reliable.
I'd love to meet a woman who aligns with some of this:
- Single, or fully separated, preferably but willing to talk
- Open book - loves to communicate her emotions
- Fun and flirty - likes to laugh, uses sarcasm when we're being playful, etc
- Physically in good shape - While I'm not so worried about breast size, ass size, etc, I do prefer someone who is in good shape, or if a little thick, working on herself and wants my help with that too. No offense to my BBW friends, but it's just not something I get excited by, and I want to be excited for my sub.
- Ability to communicate regularly is preferred, especially during daytime hours (desk jobs, phone work, might be best)
- WANTS to be controlled, CRAVES attention, LOVES praise
- Is open to sharing photos for proof, although we can't start slow and I do not expect anyone to show their face unless they're comfortable.
About myself:
- Controlling - (duh) - I would love to explore elements of TPE such as clothing choice, routines, diet, fitness, tasks & assignments, etc. as well as the sexual aspects, but this isn't absolutely necessary.
- Reliable - I run my own business, set most of my own schedule, but the marriage dynamic mentioned does require attention of course, which will be discussed via chat/dm
- Possessive - I'll admit it's a flaw. I'm impatient too, but trying hard to work on that with the right person.
- Love to read, write (obviously haha), help animals, help my community, listen to music, watch films, travel and more
- Can be effusive with praise - I love to celebrate your wins, comfort your losses and be not just a dom/daddy, but a friend
I'd prefer to discuss kinks privately, and can provide a full list. As thorough as this list seems, I'm actually relatively new to the dynamic, am studying every day on things, and would love someone I can learn and grow with as we progress. I don't mind someone experienced either, of course, but please be understanding. I'll answer all chats or dm's respectfully because even if I feel we aren't a good fit, ,your time and interest is important to me.
*** I noted UK in the title because I think the time difference could actually work in this dynamic...I'm happy to explain why.
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